im 18, a senior, and just started my job at ruby tuesday in my hometown. today was my 2nd day of work. the 1st day this girl was being REALLY nice and said hi. but because im kinda shy i smiled softly and said hey. i think i MIGHT have come off a bit rude, i dont know. i later asked her her name. and she goes to the high school right next to mine and a senior too. shes really beautiful and id really love to get to know her better. what should i do? and how should i do it? i dont want to make a fool of myself.
2006-12-10 02:34:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this may sound a little cliché, but just be yourself. That is the best way to a successful relationship (which is what you wanted right?). The reason that's important is because the longer you're with someone, the more your true colors are gonna show. That's why its best to just be yourself from the start to know if you two are truly compatible. You probably didn't come off rude to her since you smiled. She probably has noticed you looking at her (we girls notice such things) and feels flattered by that alone. Just talk to her more, casually ask her to hang out; maybe you want to start hanging out in a group to take less pressure off yourself. However, if you do decide to hang out in a group with her for the first time, be careful who you have her around. Sad to say, but you never know that some of your friends just might not be your friends until they do something bogus to you. If there is a guy you don't trust, definitely don't bring her around him. But anyway, after you break the ice, then tell her you had fun and you would like to take her out to a movie or something like that, depending on her (and your) personality. Good luck to you!
2006-12-10 02:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by chanteuse87 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're doing great it day #2 since you have met her. Don't move too fast, keep casually talking to her and then maybe by week 2 or 3 you can go on a lunch date or even an evening date. During the second week try to go on break together too. You'll know if she is interested. Don't come on too storng at work. Never try to kiss her at work. Ypu don't want to ruing your relationship over this, or worst lose your job. Good luck.
2006-12-10 02:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by One Love <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend that you continue to have conversation with her, ask her if she is going to go to college and where, ask her what she is doing for the holidays, and so on. Find out if she likes movies, basically get her talking about herself, if she is into you she will share a lot and ask you about similar things.
Don't be discouraged, dating and young relationships are all about the numbers. She may no like you but you may not like her. Don't feel like this is the only thing you have going, if you don't hit it off, move on to the other ladies that you work with, you may find that you hit it off with the others better and have a really good time.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-10 02:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by happytone365 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually dating someone that works with you does not work because you are around different people and may cause jelousy in a relationship. Just talk to her and tell her how you really feel and if you two hook up set standards in the relationship to keep work at work and affection at home.
2006-12-10 02:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by jaylee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she won't be completly clueless in simple terms cant take a sprint a super type of girls are like that in simple terms decide for it no 2d suggestions no question in simple terms pass straight away as much as her and ask her out. she will for particular get the hint then
2016-10-05 03:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by lyon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't come off to strong and you didn't sound rude. Its just sometimes girls take things personally. I would try to get to know her better, so if one time u wanted to ask her out, it wouldn't seem weird or anything. Asking people about themselves is not weird, but don't start talking about yourself, unless she askes, because if you start talking bout ur self then u will seem self centered. But be outgoing. =)
2006-12-10 02:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by morglovsya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, its only day 2. Calm down. Don't do anything. Learn your job. Say hello and pass the time of day when the opportunity arises. If something is going to develop, it will. Just give it time.
2006-12-10 02:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Firespider 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush up to her. Act cool and be a close friend first for a few more days, to get her comfortable around you.
Then you get closer...and closer...and ask her out with a smooth blunt tone...
Totally like a smoothie...
2006-12-10 02:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by rhea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Keep trying to have little conversations. Smile alot. Have confidence in yourself and don't act so shy. Have fun
2006-12-10 02:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by autumn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just strike up a conversation with her. and don't act like a geek.
2006-12-10 02:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jayden 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋