2006-12-10 02:30:35 · 6 answers · asked by Smooth Operator 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find out how he treated his "women in the past". Is he a player? If so, I'm sure you're familiar with the phrase "Once a player, always a player". Don't judge though, because people can change. Some signs that he really likes you though:
- He listens. If he remembers the details of something you told him a week later, that is good. Men don't tend to listen a lot. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and most of the time he listens.
- He forgives everything. As women, we tend to have a lot of mood swings and get real mean and nasty. If he forgives it immediately and expresses his understanding, that is good.
- He doesn't ask for "space". It is good to give a man his space, because whether they know it or not, they need it. But if the guy is more interested in you than his friends or other "female friends" then that is a pretty good sign.
- He stands up for you. People talk a lot of crap these days, and if you here of him standing up for you from a friend, or even see it first hand, that is good.
- You never hear about him around town with another female. I believe that is self explanatory.
- He shows you respect. If you never get the impression that he is using you for anything (money, car, gifts, etc) and if he never calls you mean names, neither to your face nor under his breath and isn't sarcastic with you, that is good.
Okay... well I'm not an expert, but I feel that I know guys pretty well. I hope this helps you and helps you recognize a true love. Good luck to you!
2006-12-10 02:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by chanteuse87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is ask questions about his old relationships like how many girlfriends have you had, how many have you told that you love them, what made you want me, how am i different from some of your other girlfriends stuff like that questions make people think on spot and gets into peoples souls
2006-12-10 10:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's pleasing you and it's good, what is the problem? Obviously something is missing otherwise you wouldn't be asking the question.
Sit down with him and CALMLY AND UNACCUSINGLY ask about his ideas on your relationship. Listen quietly to his reply. Then CALMLY AND UNACCUSINGLY state what you want. If you can't agree, then decide whether the pleasure trumps what you really want.
2006-12-10 10:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant really "know" but you can get clues or could straight out talk to him.
2006-12-10 10:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to know. U need time to know that.
2006-12-10 10:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Cherry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont please people i don't like most people don't
2006-12-10 10:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by marshall m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋