I like this neighbor of mine, called Putra. He's the kind of guy that keeps to himself unless you get to know him really well. He knows about my major crush on him, but the thing is, I didn't tell him myself. If he knows that I'm crazy about him, why isn't he making the first move?I've invited him to go skating with me this friday. He hasn't told me if he can come yet, but do you guys think I'm being too desperate, just to win his heart?I've been crushing on him for like 6 months already. Should I give up, after all the hard work I've done to win his heart or should I continue to go after him?Or do I pretend not to like him, so that he'll realize that and start to notice me?
2006-12-10 02:30:02 · 5 answers · asked by Jayden 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey u can do two things which actully realy works on us(boyzz) ...... first ---- make the first move bcaz this guy might be realy shy
second---- pretend not to like him n try to ignore him a bit. then he will come to u on this own (but he must know that u like him ) he'll definatly *** to u n talk to u.. n one more thing guys like when u take care of them....try any of this will work trust me
2006-12-10 02:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by akshay_cooldude911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell Putra flat out that you would like to go on a date with him. Make it a yes or no and give him a deadline to give you an answer. Say,"Putra, I would like us to go out and get to know each other better, I think Friday is perfect. Could you let me know by Thursday at 9pm if you are going to go? If I don't hear from you, I'll assume that you aren't going." This gives him no option but to give you an answer. If he doesn't call, then take someone else. If he does this (without a good excuse). then don't waste your time with him.
2006-12-10 10:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on to somebody who has more interest. Even if he does like you, he's acting like he has no emotion. Do you really want a guy like that. He sounds kind of weird. You should be with somebody who's fun and makes you laugh, not some guy who just looks good while doing nothing.
2006-12-10 10:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Xty♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see if he takes you up on the skating invite. If he does Great! If not I would leave it be. Move on. I know there are other guys who'd love to go skating with you.
2006-12-10 10:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur such a ****
2006-12-10 10:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋