I am guy and say hypothetically I was your boyfriend. But you found out that I was a virgin. What would you do in a situation like that, would you be happy or disappointed. It’s just I have not got a girlfriend yet but I was kind of curious to what any girls reaction would be.
2006-12-10 02:23:35 · 35 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be happy. I think that any decent girl would be happy as well. That means that you haven't been with a ton of girls and it shows that you are strong-minded and waiting for Ms. Right. I am proud of you!
2006-12-10 02:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey shy guy I wouldn't think anything about it other than I know that we would both have to work at making "our" sexlife. Firstly, to make you feel comfortable and safe I woudl ask if you woudl like me to get tested for ALL stds'. Once that was out of the way I'd just go with the flow and being the experienced one would guide you if and when needed. I would hope you would be open to suggustions as if not that could be the problem not the fact that you were sensible and brave enough to keep hold of your virginity. It should be a fun period for you both and not a problem. Personally I would feel totally safe with you, you would be introduced to a lot more than you'd bargained for.
2006-12-10 02:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Cleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know, this is the opinion of someone who is 22 and not a virgin, but has not had loads of sex.
Anyway, I would be happy, because it is different. I don't think it would make a lot of difference, although if he was a virgin due to religious reasons, I may find that off-putting as I'm not religious.
I'd find it sexy because I'd feel that I could be myself more, as you would have no comparison. And I'd like the idea of me corrupting you! Although after the honeymoon period of the relationship I'd worry that you would want to try different ladies.
2006-12-10 02:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that situation before. My ex-boyfriend claimed that he wasn't a virgin but he was. I didn't like that he lied to me about it. Not that it would make any difference anyway. I think he was ashamed or scared that I wouldn't date him anymore if I knew he was a virgin. But I completely disagree. If your girlfriend cares about you and likes you, that should not even be an issue. Besides, I got to teach him a few things. LOL
2006-12-10 02:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would feel pleased to be the person to take your virginity, the first time is the time you will remember for the rest of your ife and i woud feel that i had some impact on your life. i would know you woud never forget me. i think it's nice for girls to know that you haven't slept around, don't be at al embarrased as no doubt you have been waiting for the right person. when you find her she will understand and can help you if you are unsure. good luck to you and enjoy it......don't forget practise makes perfect xx
2006-12-10 02:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would be disappointed because you won`t be an expert and i`d be happy because then i`d be your first so don't worried cause most girls will feel the same and good luck on finding a girlfriend.
2006-12-10 02:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by brokenheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be head over heals so happy. Its better that way jst mke sure the girl u 1st u no what with is worth it. And if your over 30 then thats BADD. But overall its good expecially nowadays.
2006-12-10 03:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by peas and cheese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason to be disappointed. It's not a crime to be a virgin! And actually, nowadays, that must be considered a quality, not something to be ashamed of...
2006-12-10 02:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they are what i would call a "nice" girl, i expect they will be pleased and if they are also a virgin, they will feel very relieved too! I think it is sweet. I am not a virgin but i wouldnt mind if i met a guy that was. But at my age, 28, i doubt that would happen.
2006-12-10 02:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would be glad!! I want to wait for my wedding night, because I see it as sacred and something that should be reserved for your future husband. Sure everybody says they want to test drive the car before they buy it. But a new car sells easier than a second hand one!!! Very good for you!!
2006-12-10 02:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋