OK my sister has two kids and another on the way and she is always making me take care of them and i never have time for myself what should I do???????????????????????????????????/
2006-12-10 02:05:02 · 8 answers · asked by Bettyboop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just say no.
2006-12-10 02:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do ? That's easy . If you feel like it you do her a favor . You tell her that from now on she must call you ahead of time with plenty of notice to see if you are free and want to .
Looks like she is having great fun overpopulating the earth so get the point across in no uncertain terms that your plans are different . Don't be intimidated. You have been somewhat of a doormat . She dumps them on you and goes her merry way .
Say : that's it, no more .
Good luck and be positive .
2006-12-10 02:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pre book yourself so when she asks you then just say that u have plans already and suggest that u take care of the kids once or twice a week only
2006-12-10 02:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T answer the phone or the door! Tell her, SHE had them, SHE can take care of them. If she drops them off, just leave, b4 she does!
2006-12-10 02:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she askes you or tells u jus say u cant cos u already have plans
2006-12-10 02:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her you can help her out but not all the time
2006-12-10 02:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by Uganda O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no once in a while tell her u need time for urself!
2006-12-10 02:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by i_no_the_answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her no when she asks you, cause u have plans...
2006-12-10 02:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋