I had a date with my girlfriend on friday. She was planning on meeting with her sister brifly after work and then i wa ssupposed to pick her up at 6. When I showed up at 6 she wasn't home so I left a message. I didn'tget a call back, so i stopped by again at 7 and she was home. It turns out she was getting ready and was planning on calling me when she was ready. I was lacking confidence and was nervous, I had never felt this weird around her before. She saw I wasn't confident and she has completely pulled away from me and she cancelled our plans the next day. I The thing is, all of our previous dates were amazing and I had one really bad night. She was distant the whole date, she asked me to stay over and when we went to bed she was still distant and unaffectionate. The next morning she cancelled our plans for later that day and just gave a kiss on the lips with her arms crossed. What should I do now? I want her to be attracted to me again. What can I do to make this better?
2006-12-10 02:03:39 · 9 answers · asked by MichiganFan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to say she's not worth your love and affection.
2006-12-10 02:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jayden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us women are funny aren't we? One minute it's, "you re not paying enough attention to me", the next it's " dude, you're cramping my style. What I'm getting is that the chase is over, shes got you, & now shes bored. She simply can have you whenever she wants. BACK OFF!! It's time to play her game she so longs for again. When she calls, if you can, don't answer the darn phone. Call her back several hours later. If you have plans with her, do unto her, the same she has done to you. Women go crazy when a guy shows lack of response, or interest. That is, if she is still interested. How do you know if she is still in the liking of you? If she starts hunting you down, calling more frequent with a panic tone in her voice, shows up unannounced. You'll feel the vibe. But remember not to overreact. If you do, you'll be at square one all over again.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-12-10 10:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by BRITTANIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like "Romancing the Stone"..... Plan something really special and surprise her... Something that will say I love you so much.... Dramatic displays of affection have a good effect on women, You might be able to win her heart. If she doesn't turn around, go your way and ignore her, let her chase you... or find some other fish in the sea.
2006-12-10 10:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something else is going on. This is bizarre behavior. I'm betting she met another guy and slept with him. She's not sure what to do about you yet - she'd like to let you down easy, but she can't bring herself to cuddle up to you as before to do that.
Prepare for the worst. Very bad danger signals being broadcast. Crossed arms with the kiss demonstrates guarded body language. I think it's over, big guy. Time for you to sit down and say - "OK, spill it." Then, listen and learn.
2006-12-10 10:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Dont just let her sit there. She might be doing something for work. Ask her why she is canceling all of the plans you guys had. Dont let her just get away with it. Goodluck~!
2006-12-10 10:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being rather ungracious. She was late, she should have apologized. I don't get what her anger is all about. She is definitely distancing herself from you. Are you sure that it was her sister she was meeting after work? I'm thinking probably not. Good luck.
2006-12-10 10:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems as though she wants to be out of the relationship that you think you have.
2006-12-10 10:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should suprise her with somthing special........ women like suprises.. just dont freak out........ feel confident as possible
2006-12-10 10:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Val.w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont we all?
2006-12-10 10:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by catweazle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋