My boyfriends name is Tanner. But a girl named Rachal is my best friend and she likes Tanner too.How do i Get closer to him???
2006-12-10 00:52:46 · 10 answers · asked by amber c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello,
Here is what you do....
You must realize that guys have a saying.....
Bro's before Hoe's.... well if I were you I would just talk to your girlfriend ( because she should come first ) and solve it one of two ways.
Either draw straws or my personal favorite is the ole' Paper,Rock,Sissor.... Because you must realize this is what guys do....
I hate to say it but it's true...
I've had a chick swoop in for the hook up and then my buddy cockblock me, and i've done the same but that's just the way it is. One sure way to get him is to sleep with him but that may only work for a short time, and there is still the possibility that he'll chose her and then he will have put two notches on his belt. Just keep that in mind.
2006-12-10 01:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Clyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your boyfriend, you should already have him. Treat him like you would like to be treated and you should have no problems. As for your friend, why can't she find her own man? It's not like there are a shortage of them. If you are that close with the both of them, you could make them both happy and have a three some.
2006-12-10 00:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend is friend and lover is lover
you have to decide it clearly
maybe she is your good friend, and you dont want to make her sad, but love sometimes is like a battle. You can keep the friendship, and also win his love if you are better than her.
you can make deep and good impression on him , that he will fall in love with you. And your friend can not say that you steal him from her. Because it is him who decide not you. Try all your best to win his love . Good luck
2006-12-10 01:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by James Chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah! Stop. Why do we girls automatically dump our friends if a boy comes into the picture? What kind of "friendship" is that? Men are not, repeat, not worth it. Talk to your gf and work this out like grown women. If you are old enough to like boys, you are old enough to respect women.
2006-12-10 00:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in control of Tanner. He will make up his own mind with whom he wishes to be. Be who you are, if that's not enough for him, then that's his look-out.
2006-12-10 00:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't compete with friends for guys...there is no guy worth it.
want to earn some points? tell her you hope she gets him and help her. then find someone else. she will always be a grateful and loyal friend to you afterwards which will mean so much more than some fleeting guy.
2006-12-10 00:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by Christie Brucks 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of u has to lay off because this guy might ruin ur relationship and u might reret it for the rest of ur life.
2006-12-10 00:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and trustworthy.
Tanner would choose the right girl by himself.
And that may be YOU
But if you would try to cheat anyone anyhow,
then you may lose him.
2006-12-10 00:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is dating him, you dont.
If she isnt, then you need to show him your good qualities, and let him decide.
BUT, be yourself when doing this, if you fake it to get him, he might not stick around when the real you shows.
2006-12-10 00:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
by attracting him
2006-12-10 00:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by bolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋