I'm crushing Bigtime on this guy called Putra. He knows I like him, but he hasn't made any move yet. He entertains me, but I kinda have this feeling that he doesn't like me back. Should I give up, or continue going after him?
PS:Who knows?If I don't give up, maybe he'll like me back soon enough..
2006-12-10 00:43:11 · 16 answers · asked by Jayden 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him his space. Don't crowd him. And don't act like you've got a crush on him when he's around. Be cool, act normal. Just let your smile and eyes do the talking. And respect yourself. Believe me, this is the most important thing. Don't ever do anything that you don't want to just because he wants it. Love him, but don't worship him. And as you've said, maybe over time, he'll love you back. If not, it's his loss. Coz he just lost someone who loved him. And its' your gain - coz you just lost somebody that didn't love you...
All the best! And I'll pray that you have a Happy Christmas ;)!
2006-12-10 00:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Maverick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is ask him how he feels. Let him know how you feel. Take a chance it might work out. If not, then there are many other putras in the sea. Good luck.
2006-12-10 08:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can show that you are receptive to his advances, but don't pursue him. You made it clear that you like him but from your description it doesn't sound like he has shown interest yet. You will have more of a chance if you stop pursuing him. Guys aren't attracted to girls that continue to pursue them. Guys like the challenge...
If he really likes you, he will realize you have backed off and he may start pursuing you.
2006-12-10 09:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delilah's on de loose
Nuh take no sip from she juice
The last one take a sip still confuse
Delilah's on the loose
Want to tie the lace on yuh shoes
Want to see yuh bruise up your nose
She's got AIDS
Under her dress
With her silicone breast
That she have dey pon she chest
AIDS inside her pants
Even though she's in the dance
Dont take no chance
2006-12-10 08:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by ilyena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try talking to him. Cook him a dinner and talk over dinner.If your heart tells you not to give up than dont. Always follow your heart.
2006-12-10 08:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by little_gizmo2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you just answer your own question? lol.
Sometimes it takes a while for men to come to their senses and realize what's infront of them.
I lost a girl once by the time i figured out she liked me. One of my regrets.
2006-12-10 08:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never try to force a guy to like you it makes you seem desperate
2006-12-10 08:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dnt u try to get friendly with another guy and give more attention to someone esle... (just act as if) and see whether ur GUY is responding.. if he gets jealous and tel u that he is jealous... then it is clear he like u as u like him...
But if he dnt reacts on wat u did .. then i am sorry dear.. he is not GOOD ENOUGH FOR U.........
there is someone more caring waiting for u dear........
All the best..........
2006-12-10 08:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by sueann_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delilah,
Do the same thing Your namesake did to Samson.
2006-12-10 08:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the saying " flogging a dead horse " guess what ?
but don't fret there are plenty of other fish in the ocean .
you'll get over him --- remember --- survival of the fittest . good luck.
2006-12-10 08:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋