we dated for 1.5 yrs.he was sort of a jerk at first,but he changed for me.he did anything i wanted.then he mentioned marriage but i wasn't ready.i broke up with him for 5 months but only bc i had to go away.we got back together afterwards.our parents/friends didn't like it.i broke up with him again and this time he moved on. he still called me and one time lied to me by saying he was going to dump her and coerced me into sex (he cheated on her).i was angry but glad that he cheated (i know this makes me mean but it's human nature).his girlfriend never found out but dumped him the next day for other reasons (he was selfish and tried to change her). a week later he and i are still hanging out/having sex,but we both started dating new people.he really likes this new girl he's dating but i can't move on.last night i partied with friends and drunk-txted him saying life is fuucked up bc i still loved him even though i shouldn't.no answer.i found out that new girl was there last night. HELP!!!
2006-12-10 00:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by stelze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after hearing u i think that you are not clear even abt ur won self. Realtionships that break repeatedly can never be proved successful in future. So i think you should go on and look for some one with a determined and clear mind.
2006-12-10 00:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by eagle eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP all contact with him. It is obvious that he is a commitment phobe and he definitely won't change by you chasing him, drunk-texting him, professing your undying love (which sounds a little more like obsession). Why do you think that he will treat you any differently than he has treated someone else he professed his love for. He won't.
You need to start living your life without him in it. There are many guys in the world that will treat you good.
Before you get into another relationship, you need to figure out why you don't care enough about yourself and your self-esteem and you want a man that will and has continued to abuse you. Otherwise if you don't stop to think what motivates you towards wanting this guy, you will end up with another guy that will abuse you. You are part of the equation and equally responsible for the way he has treated you because you have allowed and even encouraged it by your actions.
While you are chasing him and professing your love, he knows he has you and there is no motivation to change. Even if he wants to come back, he has already shown that he can lie to get a girl in bed without consideration to her feelings. He is a master player.
2006-12-10 08:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, this doesn't sound like a healthy situation for either of you. you shouldn't be flattered he cheated with you, you should be sickened by this. chances are he cheated on you too, and maybe his ex-gf was on to something about him being selfish. he doesn't want you, and if you keep it up, you will be reduced as a bootaycall which pretty much means. that would be really embarrassing and humiliating for you. run along and save whatever face you have left.
2006-12-10 08:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Christie Brucks 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, kill her gf and say the cops did it, (this is a risk, might go to jail if detecives find out... and is ur bf finds out, you got no chance with him, and you're such a perv, lol)
2006-12-10 08:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Alan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to get him back. for now he's enjoying with her new girlfriend and ur out of the sight. start moving on, ur not even sure if he'll come back to u. and believe me, he's not worth waiting for.
2006-12-10 08:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by totallylost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be more to yourself, what do you like? who will be the lucky one......? sex...is not a game but is in your will.... when you gonna start to do right thing? just asking!!!! you are the one can fix your life but as a adviser as my advise "go make your life meaningful not adventurer"
2006-12-10 08:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-10 08:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. sounds like you are in it for sex. a relationship needs more-love, trust, etc.
2006-12-10 08:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother.
2006-12-10 08:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋