it has been 6 mos. and he said he feels better having been caught. it was something looming over his head. however, i feel like someone kicked me in the gut. i don't understand this behavior and it is embarrassing and blatant. should i leave it alone? i worry that i still love him, and i'm not sure how or why?
2006-12-10 00:32:02 · 14 answers · asked by Christie Brucks 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give yourself some time........see how things go - then u'll be able to figure out if he's really changed or not
and THEN decide
2006-12-10 00:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by mArYaM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible to forgive him but You would have to be ignort to keep him in your heart. Unless you like to have your heart crushed all the time. Love shouldnt hurt like you got kicked in the gut. He said he feels better to have been caught because he was caught. Its that simple. I was no saint to my ex and i know how guys think. Now i regret it all but what can i do right? Anyhoo, You are better then that to be treated like scum between his filthy toes.You are afraind to not love him becasue you think he is the only love you will ever have. Open your eyes and do whats right for your heart...
2006-12-10 08:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by your papi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgiveness is to forgive and not bring it back up. if you think that you have forgiven him and know within your heart that he has changed, then you may want to give it another chance. but if you think that he will creat again and worry about this, then he may be ready but not you. you can forgive someone, and leave it in the past, but you don't have to allow any actions of the past to effect you. this is something only you can really answer within your heart. blessings
2006-12-10 08:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you still have feelings for him - but if you get involved again with him you really need to be locked up. He's a bum - move on and find someone who will treat you right!!!
2006-12-10 08:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you really love him
If you think that you want to live with him and would be happy with him, you can forgive him
But if you have even a bit of doubt, then leave him behind.
In that case you would just waste your time.
Try to make a smart decision,, it's your life.
good Luck
2006-12-10 08:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ditch him....
the only way that kind of behavior is acceptable is when both people agree that it's okay.
but really, it's your call. i don't know the entire story and you'd be a better judge than i.
good luck
2006-12-10 08:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey....you cannot change the stripes on a zebra!!!! How could you ever think of marrying someone who treated you this way prior to your wedding....steer clear...he will never change completely and he will cheat again....good luck
2006-12-10 08:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive him, but how will you feel when he does all of those things again?
2006-12-10 08:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forgive him if you are really sure that he's not gonna do that again....
2006-12-10 08:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by TOXIC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
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2006-12-10 08:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋