1 girl is making my life misery
shes in my class and i have such strong feelings for her
i cant sleep at night i can only think of her
she has a b/f
and i respect that. i know it would be wrong to come in the way but i just want to be a close mate to her
she treats me so horribly but she dont notice it. everyone keep telling me to leave her dont talk to her and ive tried
everyday we keep etting further away
i know she dont give a damn
i hate not being close to her. i love her soo much
my heart literally hurts whenver i think of my situation
ive helped her in many situations and have never got a thank you
whenever she goes on holiday everyone would get a hug except me i if im lucky would get a handshake.on MSN she totally blanks me.i was jus on MSN and i said hi she replied ans we just strted a small conversation like a 1min and she said im chillin at her bf house i was soo angryy and a min l8er she said she had to go.she has stopped talkin to me much on online
2006-12-10 00:22:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know im pathetic its just tht she always on my mind and its really eating at me
plz be serious
2006-12-10 00:23:03 · update #1
get a life mate and get over it. she aint interested so move on. im afraid you cant always have everything you want.
2006-12-10 00:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel_Son_Bonsai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a horrible situation to be in. i know, ive been in it.
This girl sounds HORRIBLE. i bet she is probably like the most popular person in your class. Thats probably the reason you like her, because shes so popular, and everyone respects her. Because she has loads of confidence?
i am only guessing at the situation. i maybe wrong. but if this is the situation, you should have more respect for yourself. you need to try and forget her, it may be difficult, but i needs to happen sooner or later.
If she knows (and she probably does) how much you like her, but STILL treats you the way she does, she is NOT worth it. YOU CAN DO BETTER. try and find someone who likes you for you.
Please try and listen cause everyone is right, you do need to get over her.
It seems rough now, but its only a bad patch. it will blow over sooner or later.
hope i was a little helpful...
2006-12-10 01:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand you want to develop a close relationship with this girl, but the more you try the further she'll move away from you.
But if you want this girls friendship and respect (not that she deserves it) you definitely need to give her some space and not always be available for her whenever she wants advice or company.
Focus your energy on other girls, friends, learn to play the guitar, just learn to distract yourself from her!
Best of luck xx
2006-12-10 00:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez!
This is so sad..
But WAKE UP!!
This girl has sufficient reason to take out a restraining order against you.
She's being highly tolerant.
Please be careful...
You are too too young, to be stalking people like that.
It could be worse for you in the long run.
Try to kick the habit now please.
You don't want to turn out ot be someone psychotic.
Quit while you're ahead.
2006-12-10 00:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to hug you because she doesn't want you to get the wrong idea. She has someone so don't waste your time on her. You think you love her but how can you love someone when they don't love back. There is someone out there for you. Stop dwelling on her and start looking for someone else to love before she gets away. You never know she might come back to you at a later time in your life. Mine did.
2006-12-10 00:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by mtzstaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it is hard for you to leave her. But you have to face the truth that she doesn't notice of you. If you keep doing this, she will look down on you, and you know that girl really hates the one looked down on. If you can leave her know, it is good for you and also for her. You love her, don't you ? surely , so you want her to be happy, right ? If she is happy with that guy, why don't you leave her ? If you don't leave her, you will make her awkward, it can harm her relationship. It is okay if you decide to wait for her, but you should not be like this, you have to be strong, you are a boy, not a shy girl. If you want her to notice of you, first you have to make good impression on her.
I think that you can slowly forget her, and find another one who is suitable for you. I do believe that you will find one, because I was like you, but now I have one.
Good luck with your love.
2006-12-10 00:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by James Chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over lost love is fall in love with someone/something else. Concentrate on something else. ur obsessed only because u want to be obssesed. Try to divert ur mind, you'll soon find out how easy it is to forget.
2006-12-10 00:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm she sounds like a total biyatch to me.
Did anything happen between you two? If not, just ask her if there is anything you did to be treated this way. And just make sure you let her know that you only want to be her friend.
2006-12-10 00:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by MrRomeo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what i want you to do is this: try ignoring her, totaly stop doing things for her.shes hurting you badly so stop helping her out with things.I think u shud find some1 else to spend more time with it wud help u get ur mind off her.dont avoid her and dont disturb her just give her space.If she feels for u she wudnt treat u like dirt.u can also try to be her friend
2006-12-10 01:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to maker her break up with her bf!!! Muahahahaha, and if he treats you badly that means she likes you, i know that somehow. When u make her Bf break up you should ask her out, and then if she says no and everyone laughs at you... Ummmmm.... Move to another state/country/county.... And Daniel is a jerk lol
2006-12-10 00:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Alan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can't help the people that we love, it is ultimately uncontrolable. and the fact that you love her doesn't matter if the feels are not return. the only advise i can give you is to but the romantic feels aside and concentrate on being her freind. if you see no possiblely of just being her freind then don't torment yourself find someone that returns your feels because believe it or not you deserve it.
2006-12-10 01:20:32 · answer #11 · answered by bekah22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋