2006-12-10 00:21:06 · 17 answers · asked by Tim L 1 in Health ➔ Dental
tell her that you are going to try a tooth whitening system, ask if she would like to do this with you.
2006-12-10 00:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by St♥rmy Skye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can buy whitening toothpaste that you both can use, she won't suspect its just for her. Also buy the whitening gum, it really works for those surface stains. After a while you should see a difference. If that does not help you stop focusing on her teeth, you may have a bigger problem. Its never easy to tell someone something about themselves that is is offensive to us. They tend to take it personally as a sign that you do not love them. You may say that you were thinking of getting a tooth whitening and ask what she thinks of the process. She may have an opinion that is positive and then you can ask her to get it done with you. Hey! That might work!! Hope I have helped a little Good Luck
2006-12-10 04:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aloha and congrats.
because this relationship is "new".....your best bet is live w/it for now. for all you know her teeth may bother her also and for reasons unknown she hasn't done anything about it. she maybe
afraid of dentist or needed to use her money on more important things. she could even have a medical condition that is causing her teeth to become discolored. some medications can cause this too. i'd get to know her a lil better. now that she's found mr. amazing (that would be you :)).....she just may have her teeth bleeched....(cut her hair, start shaving her legs, wearing a lil more make-up, start painting her nails, lose a few pounds...etc.)...w/o you even having to risk messin' up a relationship that's still so new. formost....it's jus' teeth. be happy their all hers. one would think... having just found a person that makes you happy...makes you feel fuzzy all over...someone to hold hands with...to hug...to sit next to while watching a movie...someone to talk to besides the walls....the color....or the slight discolor of her teeth ....would be something that is troubling you enough that you'd come here for help. and jus' think....she's probally on the web... jus' like you....(letting go of the fact that you dress kind of strange, and the colonge that you wear make her eyes water)...trying to find the perfect words... for that wonderful christmas card she found for you today. not to mention...that awesome lil gift that she knows your just going to love!
whatever you decided....i hope that you both have a merry christmas and a happy forever. be good to each other....and never forget jus' how short life is......don't sweat the small stuff.
geesshhh...i came here to ask a question... and now i forgot what that question was. i think i'll go lay next to wonderful man that hogs all the covers and snores wayyyy to loud....and thank the Lord that i have him in my life :). night.
2006-12-10 01:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not act like you are thinking of getting a tooth-whitener for yourself, ask her if she's ever used one. Then offer to pick some up for the both of you to try and but remember it's all about your teeth needing to be whitened, not hers! That way, it's an opportunity for her to say, she'd like to try it also. If she doesn't respond to it,then drop the subject and don't push it. Could be that it isn't coffee, I had a friend that as a child had heavy antibiotics and it permanently discolored her teeth.
2006-12-10 00:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Rhea B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By her and yourself a Sonicare toothbrush which whitens teeth as it brushes, i shan't divulge into the intricate details. But its a new amazing toothbrush for her which will whiten her teeth and it wont be offending and it wont be embarrassing for you.
Alternatively, if you are cohabiting by a whitening toothpaste and you will both be using it but she wont notice that its been bought for her.
Then again she probably knows that she has the problem and maybe it will come up in conversation, just try teasing it out of her.
2006-12-10 00:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by joanne t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her a tooth whitening session at the dentist for xmas. tell her that you know she loves her coffee so you are going to make sure her teeth stay pearly white in process. i think she will be more flattered that you care about her well being, rather than feel offended.
2006-12-10 00:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by cami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into a conversation about teeth and tell how good those whitening strips work. Just go slow and easy she'll get the hint
2006-12-10 00:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Larry m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 christmas buy yourself and everyone in your house a toothbrush and buy her a teeth whitening kit, and toothpaste or get her a gift certificate for teeth cleaning and whitening treatment at the dentist what a great time of year to bring this up it doesnt seem offensive she should look at it like a gift.
ps buy yourself oneso she doesnt get any mixed signals.
2006-12-10 00:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by michelle D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably bother her more. Since it is the holidays why don't you treat her to a teeth whitening. I dated a guy once who had the same problem and so I kindly brought up the subject and he went and had them worked on. I didn't stay with him but at least he bettered himself. lol
2006-12-10 00:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is her heart stained? Look beyond the teeth thing if she is a good woman. Are you perfect? No one is.
2006-12-10 09:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a toothpaste and make a story that if a boy gives a toothpaste to a girl they girl may live 1 more year and if he gives her more then 1 and she brush her teeth with that paste everyday she will live 15 years more she will definately understand ur feeling coze if u want u can't kiss her
2006-12-10 00:33:13 · answer #11 · answered by fish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋