There's this guy who everyone thought liked me. He flirted with me all the time, could spot me in the most crowded room, focused all his attention on me, and comforted me when I was sad. He would show off in front of me to look good, and a friend of mine told him I hated his sweater and he hasnt worn it in 5 weeks. He tries to find excuses to talk to me and we can talk for hours on MSN. However, there are some problems. Rumours have been going around he likes another girl, and she is his number one contact on his myspace. His friend also said to my friend he didnt like me. His friend often lies, but he did say this guy liked the girl that the rumours were about. He still does all the things he normally does, but seems to want to be popular and hangs out with these bitchy girls. He doesnt have any romantic feelings for them as most of them are taken. Does he care about me? Or do I need to start cradling my heart and realize he doesnt care about me?
2006-12-10 00:19:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask him, if your noticing and other people (most importantly your friends) are noticing this attraction, then the lights green for you to know that he likes you, jst make the first move.. if not he might be gettin bored, and signs hes diverting his attention to other girls is a sign of this.. just ask him out on a date or something
2006-12-10 00:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy likes you maybe others are jealous of you and are telling you a lot of BS so you will forget about him. I wouldn't listen to rumours. It sounds like he's paying a lot of attention to you in the real world. Thats what matters the most, the real world not the cyber world.
2006-12-10 08:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now, how lame is this relationship?
First of all, girl, you are so wasting your time and second of all, cut the crap with 'does he like, doen't he like me?'!!
Get out there and flirt around, have some fun and don't give a monkey's behind what he thinks about you...
Why bother?
2006-12-10 08:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Manic_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not going out then do not say anything about him talking to another girl, you'll make him think you ar a very jealous crazy woman!!
but, just talk to him. see if he likes you. don't be afraid to ask him out. the only way you will never know is if you never try. that's what i like to think about stuff like this. i know, it's easier said than done, but sometimes you just have to be brave!
2006-12-10 08:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by my_name_is_what 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let me ask you something..what is ur feeling abt him? did you like him before he started showing interest or did u start liking him because he showed some interest? I think u must review ur feelings for him. Spend time trying to understand urself rather than trying to figure out what he wants. Things will fall in place once u've done that.
2006-12-10 08:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sure sounds like a romeo/casanova type of a guy to me. So its best not to get too involved with him, because if you get into a relationship with him, you might get disappointed.
Just go out there and find another guy. Im sure there is a Prince Charming out there somewhere just for you :)
2006-12-10 08:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by MrRomeo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You read a lot into things. What makes you so certain you have been reading everything right?
If I was you I would take the direct route and ask him out.
2006-12-10 08:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to ask him what he wants from you, so just ask him about all the stuff you heard. It makes no sense at this point to worry about it. Find out the truth from him!
2006-12-10 08:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm he seems like he likes you... but sometimes rumors are true ( not most ) but if you guys talk and he flirts with you why hasn't he asked you out yet?? or ask your friends about you or have one of his friends ask about you.
a lot of guys who like a girl usually do what you say he does ... but i don't want to give you false hopes on this guy either he might just be flirting with you to make the other girl like him or just sees you as a friend sometimes guys do use other women to make another girl jealous. what i would do is see how he acts around this girl because if he shows more interest in her when you are around or he doesn't show you the same attention when she is around then he likes her and he is playing around with your head or he is very confused on what he really wants . does he flirt with this girl in front of you ? because if he does he might be trying to make you jealous ? i i have a problem with him wanting to be popular because he might just be trying to play a lot of girls just so he can be popular with the guys he might be showing you and other girls the same attention so ask around or tries to seem macho in front of his friends so they don't think he is soft and in love with you (a lot of guys do this ) because they don't want to get teased for that . this is a test for him to see if he likes you.. try flirting with other guys and see how he acts... because he might show it on his face... or see how he acts after you do flirt with other boys because if he gets piss off or doesn't talk to you that much after you do that then he likes you.. also play hard to get a lot of guys love that ... don't make it so obvious that you like him because you don't to get hurt and have him and his friends laughing behind your back saying he is playing you .and since you guys talk why don't you ask him? or ask your friends to ask him does he want that other girl? (don't go to his friend )...when you ask him don't make it look so obvious that you like him.... tell him that rumor has it that he likes that girl.
If he doesn't hurry up and ask you out.and keeps just playing with you then move on because it might be another guy out their that really likes you that you haven't even notice because your stuck on this guy
2006-12-10 09:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by ebeyes23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems as if you should do just that cradle your heart save it for someone better be patient there is someone out there for you you are still young take your time it will happen
2006-12-10 08:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by PASSION 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋