if your boyfriend went to a party on friday night and had been dancing with another woman all night?? and then she text him the next day saying what a great time she had and that it was really good to see him again??
what would you say to your boyfriend??
all suggestins welcomed!
thank you
2006-12-10 00:04:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll ask him why is this woman texting you saying that she wants to see you again when all you supposedly did all night was dance? More to the point why the hell did you give her your number when you already have a girlfriend
2006-12-10 00:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him if anything really happened after they left the club. I did a similar thing the other night and went the the lady's house and all we did was talk so you might want to hold back on accusations until you get his side of the story.
2006-12-10 08:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by I.M. Puffin' Stuff~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not looking good is it?
how did she have his number anyway? and it seems an odd thing not to introduce you ?? why didn't you all hang out together
and the text implies that she has seen him before. and the part about having a great time generally isn't said about just dancing....
why didn't you go up to them?? i don't understand that at all ...... he made you look very silly and you let him do that to you.....
i think hes playing you for a bit of a fool
ask him outright who the hell she is....
i think hes done more than just dance with her..... and i think you do too!! or else you wouldn't have checked his phone.....
i bet he looks sheepish when you ask him. if he hesitates with his answer..... hes lying.
good luck
2006-12-10 08:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what the hell he was doing dancing with another woman in the first place ask him how he would feel if it was the other way round but at the end of the day it comes down to trust do you trust him i dont think so
2006-12-10 09:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by rabbit18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well definitely i won't allow my boyfriend to dance with her.Not, for whole night.I will tell him to maintain som sort of distance so that our relationship won't be affected.But, i won't stop him to meet her as a friend.Som sort of space has to be maintained in relationships.It's not the feeling of loosing boyfriend but the girl's too much attachment with boyfriend is a matter of concern.
2006-12-10 08:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt like that 2 much nut he only danced with her so its not like theres ne harm done n maybe he is just trying 2 make u jelouse. she may have been an old friend n thats all i wouldnt worry 2 much unless u have evidence 2 prove hes sleeping with her. try talkin 2 him askin how hes time was n wat he got up 2 if its innocent he will tell u about it all if not he will probs avoide telling u! all best!!
2006-12-10 16:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to get his priorities straight. Sounds like he had to much of a good time.
2006-12-10 08:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say to my partner
1. Why was you dancing with her/him all night?
2. Why does s/he have your mobile number? you must have given it to him/her for some reason.
3. Fcuk Off
2006-12-10 08:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by simon m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be introduced to this girl and the 3 of you should hang out. If he's got a problem with that - splitsville.
2006-12-10 08:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by tabby90 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him if he is going to see her again?! Dont accuse him of anything though...apparently men sometimes take things differently to women?!
Hope it all works out ok for you
2006-12-10 08:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by ema_817 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋