i want my ex gf back.. help?

Question

ok, i was goin out with this girl for about a year and three months she always told me she is really happy being in a serious relationship with me, then we had a fight three weeks ago she thought she was pregnant n wudnt talk to me she is not pregnant though it was a stupid fight, and she broke up with me 2 weeks ago, she said she doesnt want a relation ship anymore cause of the preassure, i havent really left her alone ive being calling her n stuff, and i know i shoulndnt do that cause that puts preassure on her and thats what she hates. so i left her alone for a few days, she emailed me yesterday and said she was going to flynns(bar) she said she was goin with a freind and said she will see me if im there.. i didnt go i wanted her to have space and i didnt want her thinking she can play me im not desperate..... she called me a a few mins ago and asked if she could get her stuff from my room, i said of course you can(im trying to keep cool) she said ok, then i just said cya..

Answer 1

I think you're doing great with giving her space, but you're gonna have to talk to her one day or another and tell her how you feel and that you want her back, but try not to act to pathetic, not many girls like that and well then you have t ask her what she wants, because if she doesnt want the pressure, you guys can start over easy, a laid-back type relationship with no pressure and everything'll be better =]

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Well I think she was maybe trying to get you at the place to talk to you. Just see if you can sit her down and ask her about the relationship. Does she want to continue, or be friends and see how it goes. Just see what she wants first. If she doesn't, then I suggest finding someone new.

Answer 4

I hope when she contacts you asking to meet then do. The control is in her hands. And it is a matter of control if she feels she has some level of it. It is okay.