Well , there is a person i already knew for two years yet i do not even had the chance to meet him in person for the fact that he's TOO far away, he's in AMERICA while I am in ASIA. We just met in some chat rooms and eventually turned FRIENDS. He already said who he is, what kind of person he is, what does he feel on certain stuffs and so on but in spite of all these i dunno whether to STILL trust him. Are AMERICANs (well he's Mexican) are LIARS or not totally all are liars but most of them are? Here's the fun fact ... i think i'm already falling for him! What can i DO? How can i TRUST him?
2006-12-09 23:57:14 · 13 answers · asked by Witchqueen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cannot trust this man. As a matter of fact, you can never really trust anyone, you dont know them. People get married and have great relationships for 15 years and then find out that thier other half is a serial killer... friends are fine, dont EVER fall in love with someone you can't hold. By the way, I'm an american and my husband is Italian... I tell the truth more than he does... bite me.
2006-12-10 00:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in any relationship you have to have trust, whether its online or in real life. the longer you know someone the better you can gauge if this person is right for you.
like someone said, you could find somone offline and they can end up being not the person you first thought they were. people think its just happens online but they are wrong. many good relationships are found online these days. its safer and easier to get know someone and open up, where face to face can be harder.
go with your gut feelings. if it feels right then go for it. be careful as well. when you do meet make sure its in a public place and that someone knows where you are going to be.
2006-12-10 00:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could properly be previous style yet... take a seat down with a mentor or somebody older you have confidence and omit the features which you incredibly choose in a pal. Then upload the guy specific stuff. The mentor or older guy or woman is there to be a actuality verify and help prioritize consistent with their adventure. Now, right here is the complicated area...all of us you date, run them for the duration of the verify checklist. in the event that they make all the priority and many the others, feels like a guy or woman that's beneficial to start relationship heavily, including in a monogamous, dedicated relationship. by using ways, that's how adults purchase autos. ;)
2016-10-18 01:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl near me was raped by someone she developed an online relationship with and it was after over a year of chatting online. Be very, very careful! Now that's been said, maybe you can plan a vacation in America or Mexico and meet him in some public place but still use caution. Don't go anywhere with him alone.
2006-12-10 00:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
trusting a person comes naturally...nobody could dictate you except your heart and minds comes along with it...its like falling in love with a guy in just a second or just a wink of you eyes...yes sometimes you have to analyse if you have to trust a person or not...but it the heart dictates it...there are things that only heart could see and feel....just like me also falling in love to a guy who so far away from me and only on cam see each other...but knowing him through conversation and seeing him...my heart says...you can trust this guy...and that's it...dont blame yourself if you start trusting him....just follow your heart and trust God of course because His the way why you meet this guy...
2006-12-10 00:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by moonlight lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a perfect thought every gal gets sweet heart...and plz do not have any idea of it as off now...coz i personally have a friend of mine who has got cheated like this...and hes ruined for his life...trust me a gal cheated him so badly...he went there to states and came back like a fool.
2006-12-10 00:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Slim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u get to know someone by talking to them and not by seeing them. u should know better, do u trust him? do u believe what he says? does he do the things he says he is going to do?
don't lose a friend jusy because u think americans are liars. that's shallow
2006-12-10 00:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by dragaralu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all Americans are liars! Our govt may be, but most common Americans arent fake!
2006-12-10 00:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by NIPS® 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all a fabrication of your imaginative fantasy: one cannot legitimately "know" someone from online. It is too risky. Especially if that is your sole source of contact with this guy. I would admonish you to get real!
2006-12-10 00:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot trust this person if you have never seen him. You can tell alot more with facial expressions, voice and body movement.
2006-12-09 23:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋