I know women are not AS stimulated visually as men, but come on. I see women druel over good looking guys all the time. There is serious physical attraction that women respond to also. So why do women not respond to porn? Or do they just hide it better them us horny men? So ladies, if you watch some graphic porn, you are going to tell me it does absolutely nothing for you? NOTHING, EVER? Do you find it discusting then? Let me in on what goes on in those hard to figure out minds of yours........
When I had intercourse with my ex, she like to watch "it go in and out of her" (her words not mine) She was really into watching, but yet she always claimed to find porn "so gross" WHY? I think she was lieing myself.
2006-12-09 23:34:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The female equivalent of porn is a romance novel. Have you ever peeked inside one of those things? Jesus Christ, I never knew it was THAT bad. Then again, I guess I can't really throw stones since porn isn't much better. I'll call it equal.
2006-12-09 23:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Steve 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
The issue is most porn is male oriented. Women are turned on by much different things than men are. There is some truth to the old joke about the wind blowing in the right direction.
For most women, and by no means is this all women, there needs to be some mental stimulation, a story line of some sort, some reason for the sex. Not only that, but I have noticed that hte most attractive parts of porn for a man seem to be the least attractive to me....and I actually LIKE porn and even have some subscriptions LOL
2006-12-10 07:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Star 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all i would like to say that some men can be like that too, they won't admit that they watch porn but they do! I think porn is OK so long as the sexual activity in the relationship is OK, if two people in a relationship aren't sleeping together but watching porn on the sly then there is a problem,she probably is saying that instead of saying i don't like you watching it with me, if you pay more attention to porn than her she will detest it lol ! i would wanna be the highlight of the bedroom department not second to a porn video. I don't have a problem with my man watching porn so long as he don't start starving me to watch it lol. Anyone that says porn does nothing for them i think must have no sexual appetite and need to get some porn and watch it alone to find out just what it's all about. ; ) Ladies, what is good for the goose is good for the gander, have a nose, you never know you might enjoy it !!!!
2006-12-10 08:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by anney 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's a generalized statement and i'd have to disagree with you. most women i know enjoy porn. however most porn movies are geared towards the male audience and don't cater to women's fantasies. so by and large its men's fantasies being played out on the screen. of course there's porn for women but its not as popular as some of the other titles nor do they carry any of the big porn names in the industry. women approach sex on a holistic level if you will, where both her mind and body need to be stimulated; so its not all genital based but has a lot to do with the setting, the mood, etc. face it, we are different creatures and our fantasies are different, unfortunately men's fantasies dominate the porn scene. while men want to push the envelope with sex and take it past the realistic limit, most women would prefer a fantasy where ALL of her needs were met... i mean how come in porn ALL men c*m, but you rarely see a woman orgasm unless you like squirt videos... i also think for some time porn was taboo for women; if you admitted that you watched it, you were setting back the women's lib movement 50 years b/c you were debasing women.
2006-12-10 07:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by cami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I feel like a peeping tom even during love scenes in movies. It seems creepy to me to watch other people making out, and it's not a turn on. Your ex liked to watch when it was you and her together... not when it was some other people! Makes sense to me - they are totally different things. Plus, most porn is totally wham bam - not romantic or loving, which is a total turn off rather than turn on! Many women are much more into making love (with all of the love, gentleness and romance that goes with it), much more than simple and plain sex, which is probably the main reason why porn doesn't do much for us.
The porn industry is pretty degrading to women, also. Women aren't too into things that portray us as only sex objects, and it's kinda disturbing how some of those films border on violence.
2006-12-10 07:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by sodagoat 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
every1 varies i myself quite like porn i wouldnt go outta my way 2 watch it but it wouldnt bother me if that was what my bf wanted 2 watch! im not bothered if he watches porn or not its healthy every guy does it!! porn doesnt nessessarily stimulate women in the brain as seeing sum random people gettin it off can b a lil wierd even if theyre doin it 4 our pleasure. but women do get turnt on physically by it. there have been tests done 2 people of both sexes 2 c the stimulation of the brain and sexual organs n woman had more of a change in their sexual organs where as men did in the brain.
2006-12-10 07:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by blossom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women can be turned on by porn but what turns you on may not turn on your gf. For example you just enjoy what you're watching; she may need to find the guy attractive. Or maybe it shows more of the woman and not so much of the bloke. Some women get off on watching another woman come, but maybe your gf would rather the camera be on the guy's face when he comes. Or some other part of his anatomy....
Or maybe your gf would rather do away with the woman altogether and watch 2 blokes getting it on. My OH was very anti it to begin with but now he realises that he gets the benefit, both in terms of it getting me really horny, but also in terms of the odd tip I've learned.
2006-12-10 07:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by pompeii 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, porn is nothing but two adults ********. Woop dee doo. Its gross because there is no love, affection, its all just SEX. If women really just cared about penetration, WOW there would be no babies because most men get on our nerves and there are dildoes in the world. LOL. I love men, so I wont say you all get on my nerves, but we like affection, partnership. So when she said that naughty sentence, it was because you were her boyfriend at the time, and felt like being intimate and honest. We like sex just as much as you so, but less lessn things makes us want it.
2006-12-10 07:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by Brown Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some women do like porn, like me. The problem is, some porn is so crude and the women are disrespected for show, that's not a turn on.
2006-12-10 07:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Women don't like porn because they wont the real thing not just a stupid video about it ! It's gross !
2006-12-10 12:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by taste the rainbow<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋