Me and my boyfriend haven't talked for 4 days. I have no idea why....I keep calling him and nothing. None of his roommates pick up the phone. I am going thro **** with my family....(with the fam its so bad the police are involve) so its like I really need my boyfriend. Not to mention I am so in love with him that I want to marry him and have kids with him. But he doesn't know him not picking up the phone is killing me....other guys dumped me by not answering the phone and I don't want that to happen again. Except the last day we talked we said I love you to each other....so now I wonder if something has happened. I am going out of my mind and my bestfriend tells me to date other people. PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-12-09 23:29:41 · 14 answers · asked by *you make me feel invisible* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If possible, go see him. If he is physically ok than he must just want space.
If you can't go to him than maybe try calling his home phone and asking his family if he's alright. You can explain to them that you have been dating/envolved with him and can't seem to reach him and just wanted to make sure everythings is ok. If it is, you need to stop calling and let him come back to you.
2006-12-09 23:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Janice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy id tell you honestly dont get into his face.. if hes not pickin up he probably has somethin goin on too. im not sayin dont call him up and see if you can talk to him etc. but give him his space a little bit guys love that and most importantly next time you do talk/meet make sure you guys have a great time don hold back with what you wanted to say while u were waiting. and about the breakups you better just hope for the best that its not gonna happen but if he says what he says have a little faith in him. itll be easier on u then
2006-12-10 07:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by yonba o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's scared about your family and doesn't want to be involved. If you haven't spoken in four days and he also hasn't offered any support than he's a jerk. He also has the roommates on watch patrol as well, I would leave it as it is and find someone else. Trust me, you will be better for it.
2006-12-10 07:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by 3000gthottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is also having a problem of his own just like you and he can't get into or answer your call, but anyway stop thinking negatively that same thing will happen with this bf of yours, does you bf have his own cell phone, why not call him from there and leave a voice mail message but whatever hope everything turn out for the best for you..
2006-12-10 07:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not sure how old you are, but i think maybe a teenager,
the problems you are having at home with family should be straighten out before you persue any relationship with anyone,
as for the boyfriend, he probably doesn't want to be involved in your family problems, so fix one then the other should fix itself, if not move on and find someone else
2006-12-10 07:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are confused on what a boyfriend's role in your life is. I'd gladly be your friend but you'll have to redefine a boyfriend's duties before you find a guy that can really love you.
2006-12-10 07:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Red Winged Bandit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something must have happened; I hate to say it but you may be too clingy, are you suffocating this guy? Try taking a step back and call some of your girlfriends.
2006-12-10 07:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Cynthia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his not being there for you not only in your time of need, but in general, speaks volumes about the respect he has for you. Although a lot easier said than done, it time to move on and find someone who will respect you and love you enough to be available to you at all times.
2006-12-10 07:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by desert_rose1274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying send him an e-mail go to his house, keep calling. Maybe something came up and he can't talk to you.
2006-12-10 07:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he has met a really hot girl and you wont see him again until that really hot girl has left him, as for you you should just find a new man and take him to town if u no what i mean
2006-12-10 07:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋