hmm so theres this girl I'v been hanging out with who I really like but shes never had a boyfriend and doesn't party, shes different then most girls I usually go after but shes real chill, i'm just worried she won't "get" any of the signals I'm sending/ will send and that she'll be weirded out cause shes not used to it. We've been on a date and I didn't even try to hook up cause I can tell shes shy and not used to it (i wouldnt be surprised if shes never been kissed) any advice on where to go from this, we had a great time but I don't wanna risk entering the friend zone!
2006-12-09 22:41:06 · 5 answers · asked by PunchtheKeys 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's really not a chance to progress this relationship without taking some kind of a risk. You need to asses whether or not the risk is worth possibly compromising the friendship and decide what to do from there.
I will say this, backward, wallflower, shy, whatever you want to call her....simply letting her know that you're willing to take things to another level should not scare her away. If it does, you might consider the fact that you may be pursuing a child and not a woman.
Good luck!
2006-12-09 22:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sheryl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should WANT to enter the friend zone, you don't want to be like a brother though. The very best relationships are the ones that start out as friends. Keep asking her to do things with you and she will eventually open up and not be so shy with you and at that point is when it would be ok to let her know how you feel but still be careful not to say something to scare her away. If it is meant to be, it will be......good luck
2006-12-10 07:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Janice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start inviting her to little things, like...if you go to chuck e cheese, ask her to come with you...show that you're interested in her, but don't be all over her. Try to get her comfortable with talking to you, which can be kinda hard if she's really shy. Be interested in everything she says and ask lots of questions, it should all work in time.
2006-12-10 06:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by shade.meow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're a great guy.
Wow.
You're obviously not just interested in one thing.
Don't be scared of the friend zone!
The best love relationships develop out of friendship.
I'm a total romantic. I believe and love passion.
But the thing i love most about my husband is that he's my very best friend.
Take her out on dates.
Enjoy her.
If she likes you the passion will flow.
Don't rush.
The best things in life are worth waiting for.
2006-12-10 07:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by Louw D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
B up front and ask her, don't beat around the bush. At least u won't die wondering.
2006-12-10 06:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Horizontal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋