Me and my lover both study several fighting techniques(and how much of a knob do I sound saying that), anyway, we occassionally spar, and though he's twice my size, I am twice as fast, so it's quite even.
Anyway, last night he pushed me a bit in jest, and my reaction was to punch him at full force into the chest. I didn't really meant, to, it's just what I did without thinking. We very quickly descended into a full blown fight, with neither of us holding back, and we actually wrecked our kitchen and downstairs bathroom. Then we started to have sex, while still fighting! It was a bit like Mr and mrs Smith.
Anyway, it was the most awesome sex I have ever had, even though I can't even stand today because my legs are so bruised and bashed, and my lover limped off to work with a split lip and th remains of a nosebleed.
Has anyone else experienced something so weird? Coz I never thought I would enjoy something like that and I'm a bit worried we are going to get into pain and stuff now
2006-12-09 22:14:40 · 19 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you're getting some **** who cares?
(Stalk me all you want, you sound hot)
Chat soon
Lova ya Babez
XX
2006-12-09 22:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL Actually this sounds like a lot of fun. I don't think I would make a habit of it becaue you won't have a house to live it but new experiences especially sexual ones are fun and exciting.
There is a fine line between sex and pain. For some people pain can turn them on and even heighten sex. I guess it's all adrenaline based. Such as some people like to be suffocated during sex because it actually works as a stimulant. Other people enjoy biting. Whips, spanking, yadda yadda. It may seem a little weird and even scary to some people but to those of us who have tried these things and gotten off it's the most natural thing in the world and we know how much fun it can be. It's no different than enjoying rough sex you just happen to like it a little rougher. Plus because it was completely new and completely spontaneous that it happened it made it that much more thriling. I've had similiar experiences and I was worried that I might be a freak. Well I guess I am a freak but it's not a bad thing if me and my partner are thoroughly enjoying ourselves.
It's definitely not a bad thing as long as you are openminded to trying new things. Just try not to kill each other. Maybe make it a twice a month thing in between remodeling. ;)
2006-12-10 06:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by copper_eos 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a purely an individual thing, by which I mean not D.I.Y. (although you will need that for your wrecked house) but as long as you are both agreeable then why not do something which you both enjoy. (Rhetorical) Perhaps a little light S&M may be for you both? But the basis of all fighting is to know when you should use it, ask any professional fighter. Good luck xx
2006-12-10 06:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by d1ckdeckard 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Simply Fabulous ! Get a medical checkup and always keep up the good work even though it might be too hard on both of you. A bit of pain is nothing compared to the satisfaction that both of you have experienced.
2006-12-10 06:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by Goutam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Adrenalin pumps the blood up and you have reaped the benefit of some great sex but it is not a worry that it will be like that each time sex spontaneous has always been the best for me .nothing should go into routine
2006-12-10 07:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is great isn't it. Make up sex is great but you say you are worried about getting to pain and tuff now. Fact is though you beat each other up and had sex at the same time. Isn't that pain and stuff.
2006-12-10 11:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by wizz1888 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything can happen when the adrenaline is pumping don't worry it's not going to change you unless you want it to. Just enjoy it for what it was a little ruff and rowdy sex.
2006-12-10 06:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? Make up sex is the best! Maybe you guys just like it rough.
The best thing to do would be to communicate your feelings to your lover and make sure that it is something you BOTH enjoy.
2006-12-10 06:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has happened to me too. Yeah it Rocks! I'm sure it has to do with the passion of both people as well as the physical contact and probably many other things.
2006-12-10 06:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by Raven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend always play fight and we enjoy it people think i'm mad cos i'm always full of bruises (he never bruises either grrr) If you two enjoy it then it's not wrong just watch you don't get too hurt!!
2006-12-10 14:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by Amesey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋