i dont like to emotionally attach myself to people. i dont like to spend time in groups. i have loads of friends but i dont like going on trips with them on weekends to the beach.. i would rather go alone or spend time with myself. or with my family.
i havent had many serious relationships because i need my space, i hate people calling me up all the time. yes i think i need to be cared about but not smothered.
i like my friends but i dont like spending all my time with people.
also i get really embarrased when im hugged and i have a difficult time telling emotional things to people or even personal things. and i use humour, wit and sarcasm to cover it up. if a guy would ask me out, i would eye it with suspicion that why is anyone doing that? is he so desperate for a date to ask me out?
is this very unusual? do i need help? am i just shy? do u think i can ever have a serious relationship
2006-12-09 22:06:25 · 5 answers · asked by vegas l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow what you just said is exactly how i am...when guys ask me out i always think they are joking or something cos i think why would they want to ask me out...in the end they think i dont like them and give up, even when i do.
I also like to spend time by myself..my friends get this now but i dont think they truly understand. Sometimes i wish i was more sociable but then i figure this is who i am, i look at it as being more independant, some of my friends wont do anything on there own, but im comfortable with that and i think sometimes they envy it...but yes when it comes to guys its difficult. I hope one day some guy will understand that this is just me and accept who i am.
i really hate tho when theres stories about some murderers or weirdos and people say..oh they were loners and not sociable..society seems to thin theres somehing wrong with wanting to be alone, but there isnt, theres a lot of people who are like us, so just be you
sorry for rambling lol
2006-12-09 22:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by ella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth... i am the same type... i spend most of all the time alone... just playing games.. wathcing TV, playing with my PC.. etc.... Also i never chat... I joined this forum only because i like to play PS Games.... to answer your ques. guys are very cunning you know.... they will try to catch you so be carefulllllll........
Also about relationships........ i do have some serious relationships too.... i have lots of freinds and all are equal to me... funnyyyyyyy.. isn't it... but i do got a serious GF also.... but she is not so serious and married to someone else.... so i am alone again... may be both of us are very similar
2006-12-09 22:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u will
u r sweet girl i like your thoughts u seem to be a nice girl
i hope u do
n try to be free n have fun in life
2006-12-09 22:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, not unusual and you are not shy. Yes you can have a serious relationship when you are ready to.
2006-12-09 22:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not lonely, you're just a loner. I am that way sometimes.
2006-12-09 22:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by ∂ίятУ ℓάυиḋгÿ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋