Ok this guy, he's a friend of a friend. We've been talking on msn since the end of October and have met up about 6 times. We kiss and hold hands and hug etc, basically act like we're going out. He spent the afternoon at my house yesterday and I asked him 'Where are we?' and he said he didn't know. Then, this morning he sent me a text saying 'Wanna go out with me?' My answer is obviously yes, but I wanted him to ask me to my face. I have to give him credit though, I don't think he's asked a girl out before and I can tell he's nervous and when we kiss, his leg shakes, bless him. I'm meeting him on Tuesday. What should I do? Reply back to his text and say yes? Or tell him I want to talk about it face to face on Tuesday? I can't decide!
2006-12-09 21:47:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I texted him saying I would love to go out with him, but I want to talk about it on Tues... what should I say to him on Tuesday?
2006-12-10 00:04:20 · update #1
ok...so text him back and say,,,,,I would love to go out with you....as soon as you ask me in person.....
2006-12-09 21:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well girl, judging won't help you, but acceptance will :) If you like him, it shouldn't matter how he asks you out. Maybe you really think he should do that face to face. But that doesn't matter as long as you like him. If you do, just call him and laugh about the whole situation. I guess he didn't reply because he also got confused. Let him know what you think about asking out via text... but do that in a funny way, not a serious way. From then on, just continue as usual Good luck :)
2016-05-23 01:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my ancient perspective, I'd be a little put off being asked out on a date like that. But I guess you have to take into account that there are a lot of different ways to communicate these days.
Do the date thing, at least he got as far as asking, but sometime early in the date (get it out of the way), casually let him know that you like a more personal approach to things. Text and IM are fine for chit-chat and keeping up to date, consolidating plans, etc., but meaningful conversations, when at all possible, should be in person.
If you do it right, he'll be thankful for you overlooking this minor mis-step, without being embarrassed about it.
2006-12-09 22:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by mattzcoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww that's a sweet little tale. By the sound of it you are already 'going out'. I wonder what else he is expecting since he felt the need to ask? he sounds besotted, which could mean he could get a little crazy if things don't work out. Try to keep things at a sensible pace, and watch out for signs of jealousy and controlling on his part. Boys are usually emotionally younger than girls and so struggle to deal with new emotions like love, jealousy and breakdown of relationships. Be cautious and maintain your firendships and above all don't lie to your parents about anything. They love you, have much experience, and will respect you for your honesty and always try to give the best advice they can.
2006-12-09 22:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by gbiaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and he likes you then go for it.
What does it matter if he asked you by text, reply to him saying yes, otherwise he may think you are not interested, and then talk to him about it when you meet him on Tuesday.
2006-12-09 21:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
::PARENT MODE::
Since you're only 15 and already sexually active, you need to first take a look at where you're headed. You'are asking questions about STDs and pregnancy, etc. Now, you've met a new guy and you're already engaged in petting with him. Slow down.
You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't be in such a hurry. ANY guy who is worth your time would ask you out in person. Texting is cool and fun, but certain things MUST be done in person.
I suggest you reconsider your relationship with this guy, too. If he expects you to kiss, hug, etc, then he may expect more if you actually "go out" with him. Keep it platonic and get to be friends first.
2006-12-09 21:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hopefully he will pluck up the courage to ask you out to your face. But see how Tuesday goes before making any decisions. Good luck
2006-12-09 22:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Dianne S. And also we are talking about going out not marriage. He may be too shy to ask you out. Ask him if he was sincere in his texts. But do not go to bed with him until you are quite sure he is for you and then use protection. STDs are no joke and if you get one it is too late to worry then. Be careful and be happy. Good luck xx
2006-12-09 22:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by d1ckdeckard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should text him back and say YES and add that in the future you would appriciate being asked in person.
Good luck
2006-12-09 21:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you meet him face to face ask him if he mean the txt he sent,if yes ask him to ask you again to his face f he does without hesitation then say yes if he hesitates but does ask say yes but not straight away make it seem like you want to think about it first good luck
2006-12-09 21:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by college stud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shud say yes n when u see him tell him 2 say it 2 ur face i mean it wont hurt him2 say it 2 ur face.my boyfriend was like dat but he eventually told me 2 my face n we so happy together.best of luck
2006-12-10 01:35:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋