i went out with the boys, for the first time in 3 years but I got inturupted by her showing up and guilting me into cutting my night short.
2006-12-09 21:39:08 · 13 answers · asked by morbidsmindtrip 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you need to let her know that you deserve to have a night out every once in a while, with out interruption. Compromise and assure her you would do the same for her. I swear this is the same thing that has been happening for months to me! But whatever you do, really really listen to your heart about what you want and what is best for you. Also consider that she may have an insecurity and talk to her about it. If you are in love, something will be worked out.
2006-12-09 21:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by who_is_cindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should dump that bi*ch. She has no respect for you as an individual. If she had a girls night out, would you go out of your way to cut her night short? Imagine what you would have to be feeling for your girl if you were to to do the same thing to her.
That's right. It's disrespectful and rude to not only you, but also to your friends.
She doesn't deserve you. She should learn general etiquette and learn how to act like a human being before you grace her with your presence. DUMP HER!
2006-12-10 05:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All things being equal, no she definitely should not have done that. That being said, why haven't you had a guys night out in the past 3 years? Furthermore, why did you cut your night short? Don't be anyone's doormat!
2006-12-10 05:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by Raven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was wrong to do that in front of your friends.
The problem is you didn't say how late it was I mean had you promised her that you would be home at a certain time. Did you pick up a phone and let her know that you were with friends and you would see her later. If you aren't getting along well right now she may be insecure and need reassuring.
2006-12-10 05:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First time in 3 years? That's wrong.
But I sense there might be something you're not sharing. Why would she do that otherwise, unless she's an unstable person?
2006-12-10 05:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've devoted three entire years to her without having a night to yourself. Exactly how much of you does this girl need? Doesn't she have a life of her own?
2006-12-10 12:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have no history of cheating and you told her where you going and with whom then she is wrong and you need to get out more.
2006-12-10 06:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have just defined intimidation.
Don't allow yourself to live that way.
2006-12-10 05:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I don't know who she is, but don't let yourself be bullied. You deserve to have a night out!
2006-12-10 05:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by leilacara 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No she isn't right, if I were you I would've been pissed and sent her home crying.
2006-12-10 05:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by Kerry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋