I've been having dreams at LEAST every other night that my boyfriend cheats on me or is going to. [but then i wake up] Well, just last night my boyfriend had a dream that HE cheated on me. Does this mean anything? or am i overreacting?
2006-12-09 20:53:36 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just a dream little girl.
2006-12-09 20:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, it means you are thinking you are not good enough for your man. But relax, you are! If you really think he is able to cheat behind your back, then simply ask him. If he says no, then let him know about your dream and assure him that if he ever wants to cheat, you will personally pick the girl out for him. and he must include you in all his fantasies. Once he hears this he will never want to leave you. Or you could act like your all he will ever need. And continue to have the dreams. Here's to 22 years and counting. P.S no we never had a threesome and I'll never ask for one because I know once she said that I would never need another. Having an open relationship is best. Don't hide your love.
2006-12-09 21:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by BERT G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not married....... so this action of cheating you are describing has the meaning that he respects this current relation ship and your assumption that even though he is under no legal restraint morally or ethically to refrain from such action.... he won't.
girls and guys get all pent up on this... no cheating stuff... sure no one wants to have someone having sex with another or even holding hands... but truly there is nothing from preventing that from happening... ever... no matter what or how you feel... dreams or not...
how you feel emotionally about the relationship only effects... you... and your emotion is totally subjective to that other individual... simply, love is love.... but it is powerless unless the other accepts it's terms as you accept them and you CAN NOT FORCE this on anyone else...
if he loves you or doesn't love you, if he cheats or doesn't cheat you will create the final outcome in your mind regardless of HIS actions.. you are creating a subjective world that only exists in your mind.....
look at your relationship for what it is... an event which is happening here and now... how you cradle it or destroy it is in your hands and mind.... love or hate, virginity or sex it is simply your choice...
2006-12-09 21:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is a sign you and your boyfriend need to get together and see if you are both at the same level in your relationship. If you trust him, truly trust him than just brush it off and joke about it. Sometimes dreams can be more confusing than helpful, and the meaning is not always so obvious.
2006-12-09 21:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by who_is_cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is a sign that you feel insecure in the relationship. It might not have to do with the dream, but since it has come up maybe a serious conversation will resolve it. And hopefully back to sweet dreams for both of you!
2006-12-09 20:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by leilacara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is go ahead and get him first. cheat on him...call me. Just kiddin...You are probably just being insecure. If you told you bf adout these dreams, that could cause his also. The subconsciene is a real MF. You cant stop the future, so dont worry about it. You'll sleep better.
2006-12-09 20:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by lover boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to sleep with it on your mind after talking or thinking about it in which makes you dream about the situation then he turns around and say he had a dream that he cheating he is cheating
2006-12-09 20:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by nazwats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my comment in your is because you don't trust him enough or your to worried to lost him. But to his dream well it only can come if he have some fantasy to do it. So he better stop it before it come true.
2006-12-09 21:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by Veronica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess your dreams are a manifestation of your insecurities. find the source of your insecurities and overcome it. dreams may not necessarily mean a reflection of the present life. good luck.
2006-12-09 20:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 03:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋