how do i stop being insecure for no apparent reason?

Question

i need help.

Answer 1

fear psychosis -- a kind of phobia -- think positive always improve self confidence reassure yourself --- undertake meditation -- hear and read good books -- concentrate on the present rather than the future-- keep the worries of the past away from your mind and thoughts- try to mingle with the society and surroundings especially wilth small children -- love one and all without any discrimination. you will be cheerful.

Answer 2

You have to figure out the source of your insecurity, combat that, then you can take on whatever else comes up. There's always a reason for insecurity, you just may not be able to make the connection to what it is right now. Think back in your past. Anything ever happened that scared you really bad. Did you ever have a sudden death in your family. Have you suffered a serious illness? Think hard, you'll find the reason.

Answer 3

First of all realize that you're not insecure for no reason. There is a reason. Once you find the reason, see a shrink and they will surely help you to situate your emotional baggage in a way that it is easier to carry. More organized perhaps. Good Luck.

Answer 4

RE: How am i able to end being so insecure for no glaring reason? i think like i go loopy help?!? I really have a astonishing boyfriend yet i'm scared i am going to lose him because i will not end stressful that he will discover someone extra perfect. i understand he loves me and that i think like i'm being very irrational, yet i will not end. he's not flirting with different women and that i understand he'd by no skill cheat (a minimum of...

Answer 5

some of these answeres are pretty good-----but you know the real world is waiting for you. like the one answer was ----if you can just ask ---your not that far off-----everyone is insecure at some time -------thats why they have to have groups --so they dont have to deal with things by them selves-----you might be in one and still feel the same, but your building a foundation, believe me the real world is not at all school bull----. be yourself . (dont worry about guys-----they all want you-------use your brain) your the girl --your the boss.

Answer 6

I feel insecure plenty. I have noticed that as I grow older I am getting less insecure. I know that if you try to convince yourself that you are who you are, and you love or like who you are, you will eventually accept that. Never compare yourself to anyone else, and never feel inferior to anyone. Just make yourself like yourself. Good luck sweetie, you will over come this someday.

Answer 7

Insecurity comes from within. Trust in yourself and the person that you are with, of course you have to pick the right person. Good luck

Answer 8

that's the same way i am...but i found that as long as im with my friends and i know they still love me i found i dont need to worry about others.....you cant just stop being insecure, you cant help it, and just confronting and asking this question helps alittle! goodluc

Answer 9

Try to look at things positively. If you are really concerned, you can go to a counselor and they can help give you ideas on how to believe in yourself again.

Answer 10

Not to be offensive but you are a girl and that is generally what they do. To get over this just tell yourself what you want to think, and eventually you might just start thinking it, like if you wake up everyday and say this is the best day of my life. One day you may just believe it is...