wat shall i do in such a case when i also find that guy a nice 1
2006-12-09 20:39:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This answer is directed at both the questioner and the other people who answered this question:
Folks, it's called a threesome. There is no such thing as a straight man who will turn one down.
To the questioner:
You should tell your friend. Let her know that he asked you out (that's what I'm assuming 'proposed' means). Ask her if she thinks it's ok.
It is slightly possible (though not likely) that he's asking you out to get near her. If she really has a problem with you dating him, propose a threesome. This assumes that you and your friend are open to that. Another option is to share (yes, it does, in fact happen). Don't forget to let the guy in on this. He may have some thoughts on such a decision. He may not like your friend or maybe thinks your friend is 'too good' for him.
2006-12-09 20:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Schitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he proposed, what, marriage? i am a little confused. or did he just ask you out? if he asked you out, and you are trying to decide if maybe you like him- then the real question is- what is the relationship with your girlfriend worth to you? if she is very important, i would say no. or at least talk to her about it first, so she knows what is going on. now if he asked you to marry him, it doesn't sound like you love him all you said about him is he is a nice 1- i would absolutely say no then. if we are talking about marriage, you don't marry someone cause they are nice. but i don't think you are talking about that- so back to the friend issue. I just think that if your friend really, really likes him, and you aren't that interested in the first place, i wouldn't do that to your friend. even if she says it is okay that you date him, everytime she sees you together, it will hurt her inside- even if she doesn't show it outwardly. good luck! guys come and go, but girlfriends can last a lifetime.
2006-12-09 20:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by ericar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emphasis on friend, I mean you've always known and seen him but never wanted him. Why are you so torn up about or is it because your best frieng wants him, and he wants you, now you want him ? Ask yourself all the relevant questions then follow your head cause the heart that can really lead astray and you might end up losing a good friendship over someone you don't really want..
2006-12-09 20:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly in case you want this guy's pal..commence chatting with the pal and enable this dude comprehend that ur not in contact. Dont make the blunders of hooking up with this dude because it finally damage ur friendship. I already had my 2 perfect pals go with the help of a few thing like that..and on the properly no human being were given to bypass out with this fool cuz he ought to've only led to issues of their friendship. continuously save in ideas....CHICKS previously *****! lol.
2016-11-30 09:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you love the guy, 1st, tell your bestfriend, next ask if she is going to let him go and tell he already propose to you, if she agree, try to make her promise that both of you will still be best friend, next, be sure that he and you loves each other, then, tell it to your parents and his parents, then, have a one day date, if you feel comfortable, kiss him and be sure he has no girlfriend, prepare a test for him for you to make sure like borrowing his cellphone and password of his mail, then, tell it again to your friend and ask her advice. then its already up to you... also ask the friend of the boy your telling if she has a girlfriend to be sure.(BEFORE YOU SAY HE HAD PROPOSE TO YOU)
2006-12-09 20:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jannet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen by the sound of things you are in no way ready to marry this man, especially if you have to ask us what to do. When the right one comes along you will know.
2006-12-09 20:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by sunflower932002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your friend has a crush on him and that he should talk to her and tell him that he has a crush on you so that she can understand that it was him that did that first step not you. That happens and remember in love and war everything counts.
2006-12-09 20:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 ur friend & see if shes alrite about u guys seeing eachother
2006-12-09 20:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart tells you? And talk to your friend and ask her if it's ok.
2006-12-09 20:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no worries. He will screw her at his bachlor party.
2006-12-09 20:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋