My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-09 20:14:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to get away from him as soon as you can. if he's showed that pattern that consistently he won't stop. if you can't get away from him, get the law involved. get a restrainting order put on him. there's too many men out there to be involved with a guy who would hurt you like that.
2006-12-09 20:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by theonlytrueincubusfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do more than change your number. You need to get a restraining order. They are easy to get in a situation like this and any police officer can point you in the right direction. You can call your local "non-emergency" number (unless he is there hurting you now - then call 911) and either they will tell you to come in or they will more likely send a nice officer out to talk with you. They are very understanding and can hook you up with a lot of support.
For tonight, block him on your IM and your phone too if you can. Narcissists are great at making nice, and making you feel guilty - so just don't give him the chance to do that. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. If he says or even insinuates that - he is lying.
This is a very hard situation to be in, it is hard to imagine that someone you care about is capable of this. Partly because we don't want to believe ourselves capable of falling for someone like that. But that is what Narcissists do best - fake kindness and love. Don't assume anything he has said is true, especially about his feelings. You are strong, you can do this.
May God Bless You on the Hard Roads and the Easy Ones Too.- you can email or IM if you want to talk more. all4god@yahoo.com
2006-12-09 20:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne- LEAVES Military Ministry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live at home contact your parents.
If you live on your own or with friends - inform them and then contact the authorities.
If you have any of the messages saved in any way - keep them. Show them to the police.
This person is clearly a potential threat to you - and has threatened you with physical injury - as well as abusing you in the past.
You are not safe and must act to protect yourself.
Please.
-dh
2006-12-09 20:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow he's surely creepy! in case you on no account respond to any of his messages, do not provide him any reaction in any respect, likelihood is he will end at last. whether if he is going any further, like coming around and unsafe you, you should get the police in contact. by using ways, dancing with adult males who're not your boyfriend isn't even remotely a variety of cheating. you at the instant are not low-fee, he's loopy. i'm chuffed you have gotten far off from him.
2016-10-18 01:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that a relationship with him won't be healthy. He seems very jelouse and abusive. He sounds like someone that could physically hurt you..... you don't need that in your life. There are definitely men out there that have more respect for women.
2006-12-09 20:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop asking the same question over and over again and go to the police already. If I was your friend that kid would be broken in half.
P.S. If you are just messing with people, STOP.
2006-12-09 20:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by robvandamrvd123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from this guy hes dangerous. also print his abusive messages and contact the police .Its called terroristic threats.
2006-12-09 20:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number. Tell your friends and parents about him. Do not contact him. This guy is crazy and dangerous. He seems very abnormal. Please take care of yourself and stay away.
2006-12-09 20:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to break you down have you beg to come on up guiding you and training you maybe have you make some booty money see your worth get that money gurl.
2006-12-09 20:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by pimpNJOKRXIVER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk, stay away from him and change your number! Let your parents know too, if you can! Good luck.
2006-12-09 20:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Renee B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋