Question for open-minded men?

Question

I am messing around w/ this guy who has a gf. We have been messing around even before he met her but there is a lot of sexual chemistry between us. We've never had sex (everything but) until up about a week ago and I see him often and get very sexually aroused when I'm around him. Tonight, some how or another, there were a bunch of people in his house and they ended up leaving, leaving me and him alone in the livingroom. He still wants me and he knows I want him and he pulls out his penis and begins to masturbate! I was shocked bc his gf was sleeping in the next room! Luckliy one of his dudes came over and he put in away real quick but he was totally expecting us to mess around! After we had sex he acted all ackward and scared bc he's paranoid about his gf and **** now he's trying to do in his in own apartment w/ her there! Should I take this as he wants me THAT bad or that he wants to get chaught by his gf because i'm really confused! I have no romantic interest with him nor do I want

him and his chic to break up. It's kinda like a friends w/ benefits type deal dont judge

Half of you people cannot understand english! I DO NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH I JUST ENJOY THE SEX PART!!!!

Answer 1

I'm open minded but what your into sounds like trouble to me.

Answer 2

I am sorry... how can you say don't judge? You asked the question, and your obviously the shady person so quess what deal! Why can't people understand that when something is off limits it is off limits. He is taken, and if he wants you than he would leave her. However from what I am hearing he doesn't know what he wants, but aren't you just the nice one to help him with that dilema. You know what you should be ashamed of there are a lot of woman out there who get tricked by the guy, and if only they really knew he wasn't single they wouldn't touch him. Not you no you just want to take it upon yourself to give honest women out there a bad name. Go take a good look at your filth, and ask yourself this question what makes you so hot to think he isn't playing you too? What makes you so special? Cause honey Outkast knew what they were singing when they sung "I know you seem to thank you sh*t don't stank." Nice one!!!

Answer 3

I guess you're all fun and good. I'm guessing this guy is just willing to take risks. It doesn't sound like he respects his gf ver much for him to be taking that big of a risk with her in the next room. I wouldn't say it's because he wants you so bad, it's just that he does want you some, and doesn't care what happens with his gf. Watch out though, his gf might go nuts when she finds the two of you foolin' around.

Answer 4

Do you not see what a disrespectful, cruel, arrogant piece of **** this man is. He also has you acting like a backstabbing, cheap, slut. You're a toilet for him to dump a load in. You're not a cheap whore, are you? Spend 5 more minutes with this ******, and that is what you are. Accept it and live with it{btw. do you think you're the only one?! Dummy! Does he wear condoms? I promise you he has something!} Do you think his behavior is open minded?! You ARE dumb! You say you don't wan't a relationship w/ him, just sex? You know you're admitting you're a filthy prostitute! Man, if you were here, I'd beat the ever living **** out of you. You're in for some ugly situations in your life, and you'll deserve every one. Don't judge? You're a joke!

Answer 5

well based on how you posed your question it looks to me that the man your talking about isn't that much wise you are more mature than he is. well 2 things come to my mind, first if his intentions were to break with his GF by her catching you he wants to break her heart and crush her and he wants to run away from facing her in a break up. that's tooooooo cowered and by playing both of you he seems not to be cowered so that might not be a valid assumption. i think he's much into sex and you get him hard, i also think he doesn't give the "where and how to mate" a thought once its on his mind he wants it. my advice to you is this if you are that daring and thoughtful well you need to do the thinking part for both of you, so have fun F** him but plan it before hand and keep convincing him if you plan it right you get it right.

Answer 6

Men get aroused a little differently than women. In the situation you refer to about his masturbation, it would have been super hot if you had stayed in your chair (across the room?) and masturbated as well. Safe, no-contact sex- I promise you, you should try it sometime. Try wearing a skirt w/ no panties, and flash him your vag. while his girlfriend is right there, but not looking. It will probably make you have an orgasm right there.

Answer 7

You've wasted 15 points on this stupied Question!!!! Maybe you should follow your heart and ask yourself do you wanna be a Slut and **** a guy that has a girl or do you want something better and be with a guy that you know that you his one and only. Obvoisly he don't want you like you want him or else he would have dumped the other girl. Think about it.

Answer 8

You seem to looking for approval to be with this guy, you don't need it, just tell him your uncomfortable about the situation and ask him to make some of the changes you want, and talk it out. But you have to be willing to deal with the consequences of your actions, if the other gets wind of you and wants to duke it out she will deserve her fight. LOL

Good luck..

Answer 9

Dear, your b/f is not in love with you. He is in love with his g/f as he wanted to satify himself by masterbation and not calling to do sex with him. He just wanted to **** you whereas he was in love with the g/f who was sleeping in the next room. When he was doing masterbation you should have asked him to stop it and do come with u. It was very bad on his part He must have done sex with you. OK Good Luck. **** him.

Answer 10

Don't worry, he wants his girlfriend for a relationship and you for just sex.