im a 33 yr old women married to a 30 yr old man who is going to college. recently a 19 yr old girl friend from school called him on his cell to invite him and i to a holiday party. i never herd of her until now. apparently there good friends. i feel some what weird about this. especially because she's 19. is it normal to go and accept this invitation.
2006-12-09 20:02:52 · 7 answers · asked by isa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only go if you feel comfortable with it... but if you don't want to go he as your boyfriend should understand that and not go either because you have never heard about her until now and don't know nothing about her and who she hangs around with. but if you do go watch her very closely because you might get a a weird feeling about her and your womens instinct inside of you will make you investigate more about who she is and what has their relationship been. i would question him on why he has never mention this friend to you. I'm a little weary on her age too it... is almost a 10 year gap between them I'm not saying people can't be friends with each other with a big age gap is between them.. but she is only 19 so that means they were friends when she was under age hmmmmmm a little weird to me.... she's not even old enough to drink and not even old enough for him and her to have went to the same school. If i was you i would ask him why he has never mentioned her? and why would she as a 19 year old girl want some people that are 10 or more years older than she is to come to a party . but if you feel up to going to this party... i would go and feel her out and watch how he acts around her because guys always get caught when they are acting funny around certain women and when they are lying because their not good at lying .. and girls that either dated that guy before or wants that guy now usually tries to make their current girlfriend mad and break up their happy relationship so they can have him for themselves
2006-12-09 20:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is no harm to accept her invitation. You go. What matter if your are 33 yrs old woman and she is young girl of 19 yrs old. After all you are married with the old man of 30 years. You must have gone in sex many times and enjoyed life. You did not disclose weather you have kids or not. If there is no kids from your hubby, then the problem must have come to lilght . As she is 19 yrs old girl and they are good friends. You should feel worried as something will have to happen and that will happen any way.
2006-12-10 04:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is weird, because of their age difference, 11 years, does she really know how old he is, and that he is a married man? Probably not, go to the party to check thing out, but make it a point to let her know you are HIS WIFE and leave as soon as possible. Sounds fishey to me. Good Luck.
2006-12-10 04:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by Janice 10 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is difficult. I don't party, so I don't know what's "normal." I guess there's no harm in going to a party, per se. If he wants to go, you should get him to get you invited. That should solve the problem. Good luck!
2006-12-10 04:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sure as hell shouldn't let him go by himself.
2006-12-10 04:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure thing... You shoud go.
2006-12-10 04:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by TOXIC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup . go & find out what is going on?!
2006-12-10 04:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋