I am messing around w/ this guy who has a gf. We have been messing around even before he met her but there is a lot of sexual chemistry between us. We've never had sex (everything but) until up about a week ago and I see him often and get very sexually aroused when I'm around him. Tonight, some how or another, there were a bunch of people in his house and they ended up leaving, leaving me and him alone in the livingroom. He still wants me and he knows I want him and he pulls out his penis and begins to masturbate! I was shocked bc his gf was sleeping in the next room! Luckliy one of his dudes came over and he put in away real quick but he was totally expecting us to mess around! After we had sex he acted all ackward and scared bc he's paranoid about his gf and **** now he's trying to do in his in own apartment w/ her there! Should I take this as he wants me THAT bad or that he wants to get chaught by his gf because i'm really confused! Please help
2006-12-09 20:00:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I DO NOT HAVE FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY AND DO NOT WANT HIS GF TO EVER FIND OUT. I USE HIM FOR SEX AS MUCH AS HE IS USING ME! DON'T JUDGE@
2006-12-09 20:02:30 · update #1
Are you serious? He was messing around with you before he got with his gf....get it?? He doesn't consider you good enough to be with! Your just a toy in his back pocket. Why do you do that....give him his cake and let him eat it too...and offer him some more!! See, females like you screw everything up for the rest of us.....If your gona play the game, play it right!! If the guy is committed to someone, the female has the upper hand! It's up to you when, where and what you want performed!! I bet you gave him lots of blow jobs before he pleased you in ANY way....(that's if he has pleased you!).
Another thing, I hope the gf is not a good friend of yours, because she will find out sooner or later!
2006-12-09 20:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by DREAMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why is there a difference between his house (where his girlfriend is apparently sleeping in the next room) and his apartment with "HER" there, unless the difference is she is awake this time?!!!! Okay, now here is what I think, and oh yes I am going to judge, You are a self centered, self absorbed person
so why you care if his girlfriend finds out about you two can only be self serving, And dont flatter yourself that he ":wants you so bad "he cant help himself. The man doesnt care about either one of you. Obviously the guy gets off on the chance/danger he will get caught, it turns him on, you are just an ends to his means
2006-12-09 20:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, like you said, its only the sex. Dont look for a real relationship with this guy.
2006-12-09 20:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ment anything to him the girlfriend would have been gone before your first kiss...
run and never look back
seriously guys like that arnt worth your time...
Just think about the poor girl he is hurting because she is devoting herself and her time to him. what if you or her got something because who ever said your the only other girl he is cheating on her with.
2006-12-09 20:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he were not doing it to you it would be someone else, and it could be someone else at the same time. I know the type. He just wants to do it with anyone who is willing.
You should charge him, he would have to pay someone if not for you.
2006-12-09 20:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on her and will cheat on you. I can only guess what sort of person you are to actually be aroused by such a facking loser.
Look.
At.
You.
2006-12-09 20:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i m not a cheater
i think he used u for sex cox uu r very good lookin and open n hot
2006-12-09 20:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes to live dangerously
2006-12-09 20:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should make him decide if he wants you or her cause its not fair on her
2006-12-09 20:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by james m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i'm really confused! Please help"
True! Give it up and wait until you're married. That's my help.
2006-12-09 20:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋