I am messing around w/ this guy who has a gf. We have been messing around even before he met her but there is a lot of sexual chemistry between us. We've never had sex (everything but) until up about a week ago and I see him often and get very sexually aroused when I'm around him. Tonight, some how or another, there were a bunch of people in his house and they ended up leaving, leaving me and him alone in the livingroom. He still wants me and he knows I want him and he pulls out his penis and begins to masturbate! I was shocked bc his gf was sleeping in the next room! Luckliy one of his dudes came over and he put in away real quick but he was totally expecting us to mess around! After we had sex he acted all ackward and scared bc he's paranoid about his gf and **** now he's trying to do in his in own apartment w/ her there! Should I take this as he wants me THAT bad or that he wants to get chaught by his gf because i'm really confused! Please help
2006-12-09 19:53:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What goes around comes around - you're asking for it, and so is he.
2006-12-09 19:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not close to this girl you should be. See if she is willing to share. If not, then try to seduce her into a girl on girl thing with you. Your a ***** anyway. Leave that boy along and tell the other girl whats up with this guy. He sounds like he likes a different thing every other week. He has no respect for you, and it's not like you seem to have any respect for him, her, and yourself. Grow-up and get real life. And please see a doctor right away! I can smell you from here. Sexual chemistry my ***!. Stop yourself before it's too late! Focus on your life, not others.
2006-12-10 04:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by BERT G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea... hes using you because you seem willing to do it. End it asap. You dont want to get stuck inbetween a relationship, especially sexually like that. He's just using you for sex, which is wrong on his part. Find someone new and single and better!
2006-12-10 04:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea... hes using you because you seem willing to do it. End it asap. You dont want to get stuck inbetween a relationship, especially sexually like that. He's just using you for sex, which is wrong on his part. Find someone new and single and better!
2006-12-10 03:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i may not be totally correct in my thinking on this, but i'm believing he's just being a typical guy and just trying to get what he can. i think he's distorted what sex should be and he's just out to get what he can while he can. i know you say you two have a lot of chemistry together, but first, he is take, and second, a relationship with a guy who would do this will never get you any where. find a guy you know you can trust...there's plenty out there. this guy isn't worth your time.
2006-12-10 03:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by theonlytrueincubusfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing wrong and you know it and that is what is confusing you. He will keep having sex with you for as long as you let him. He is using you and treating you like dirt frankly. Why do you want this sort of relationship? do you want to be a skanky trampy 'ho? sure he wants you, some parts of you a whole lot more than others. Why not find someone who respects you and wants you to be their girlfriend and possibley wife and not some dirty little secret skank.
2006-12-10 03:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by cindyloo f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot going on there. Obviously he wants you - I was making on the kitchen floor one night with my gfriend sleeping in the bedroom (nearly s**t myself when she got up to pee...).
Anyway, yeah - he wants you bad.
But I think he might also subconsciously like the thrill of the risk taking. The fear of getting caught is a big turn on for a lot of people. I know it is for me... sex at the parents house when they're home, in public... blah blah...
And he also might want to get caught - either because in some way he prefers you over his gfriend and wants her to dump him... or because on some level he feels guilty.
Awkward situation you're in... good luck.
-dh
2006-12-10 04:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idd say you should wear the pance a bit.he has ya where he wants ya and he knows you will go go for it.so put the foot down and you start making the decisions.
from a guy
2006-12-10 03:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by traveller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah if he doesnt want to leave his girl friend...you are always gonna be his booty call.Trust me i had about 4 at 1 time. I loved my gf but a pimp is a pimp.
2006-12-10 03:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by lover boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a fresh friend
2006-12-10 08:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋