My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-09 19:45:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he will again try to contact u.....But i dont think u should give any response to him ...becoz love is a relationship which rests fully upon faith , respect & understanding. And the guy doesnt believe what u say. Its very cheap dat he calls u a prosti.. & doesnt respect u ... you shouldnot pine for him & there is no need to be afraid of him he cant do anything. It may be dat he loves u very much & cant see u with anybody else but even then he should listen to you,trust u & try to understand you. U just leave everything upon GOD He will himself see the matter
2006-12-09 20:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jannat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to block him. He doesn't deserve you, it's obvious he's abusive and jealous. Break off all ties and start a new life. Find someone who really believes in you and treats you will the respect in which you deserve. A guy like that isn't worth anything.
And I agree... get a restraining order from the police. It's your best bet to let him to know that you are serious about this.
2006-12-09 19:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by On a Mission 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?!! Leave him alone. Tell him not to contact you again, and that if he does, that you will call the cops. Save the messages, just in case. You are going to have to ignore your heart this time, because as it seems, if you listen to it, you might end up dead. Just leave it alone.
2006-12-09 19:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. I think deep down inside, you know what the right thing to do. He wants you becuz he's lonely, not becuz he really loves. If u love someone that much, you wouldnt abuse nor speak such things. He's not worth your time. You'll find someone much better.
2006-12-09 19:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by fannboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres of course some thing incorrect with this guy, so dont ever respond too his messeges or will abuse you much greater. If it maintains then be sure you keep the messeges and tutor it to the police. they are going to be waiting to help.
2016-10-18 01:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
Do u think he loves u? Do u trust him?
If u feel he really loves u, then try to make him understand that its just misunderstanding...try to clear it...
If u think hez just playing wid u n dun have any feelings for u, then dont think about him. Leave it...he wont harm u..he Cannot harm u
2006-12-09 19:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Sakina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a monster. Go to the police and have a restraining order taken out on him.
2006-12-09 19:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probely and im truely sorry he abused you..... i hope he doesnt message you back.....i hope he leaves you alone........ i hope you moved on from him because he doesnt seem like a good boyfriend i hope you find a really amazing guy and have a better relationship with him then this one. i hope all is well
no one disevervse to be abused
good luck
<333 ash
2006-12-09 19:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shoul call the cops
show them the emails
tell them he hit you and force him to get help
without help he will get worse and why do you want contact with a person with no respect for you or for women in general
2006-12-09 19:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by jokerswild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid him. he already threatened u by mess. keep his mess in ur mobile so in the future if he created problem for u, u can show these mess. to the police as a prove
2006-12-09 20:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by biru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋