it be lack of finances, lack of health, lack of knowing how to be on your authentic path, etc.
2006-12-09 19:43:40 · 11 answers · asked by Salsa 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
all the time...sometimes when we get into relationships, where the partner is more needy, and you really love them, and family members really need you...If you are the type of person that can't turn away, you find that you sort of let your own life go...that's when you have to not feel guilty anymore, for taking time out and doing things that make you happy...that seems to be my problem also..God bless, you are at least making the Lord happy with your unselfishness to others. xxxx
2006-12-09 21:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of people have felt the way you are feeling or still do. I know i do. I find that a lot of times, i am the one really trapping myself where i am now. I am making the excusses for myself, not moving on to a different part of my life. I have been learning now for a long time that , that is the case. The problem is that it is me keeping myself in the circumstances whether it be lack of finances, lack of health, lack of know how to be on my own path.
Later then sooner it seems that i keeping learning more and more about my path, and maybe one day i will learn from all of the problems i have let hold me back to move on, which i hope i am doing now. I know i am doing now. I have changed a lot, and the people around me would agree with that. It has been for the better too, positive. Man i use to dislike that word. But it works. You need to have a good self-esteem, and replacing your neg. thinking with positive thinking. It is not easy and in no way am i going to tell you that it is. I will tell you that is well worth it though, and you keep learning more about yourself, and feeling better about yourself. Well you will find that you can start to live your life, not the life that you think that you are stuck in now. You may even find that the life you think you are stuck in , well you weren't. It was just a stepping stone for the next step of your life.
So try to learn more about yourself, and love yourself cause that is important. You just might find that you are on the way to knowing how to be on your authentic path.
2006-12-10 04:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe every one time to time fill they aren't where they like to be. Give this a thought, look at your environment such as relationship try to talk with that person net them know how you feel, maybe the two of you could fine what missing or don't need to be there, work or not working work is it going anywhere, or is it to fast, where you live is it a big city that's to big for your liking or is it a small town and you what more around, to hot, to cold, friends are they there or just aquatint's, family you should think of thing about this your self, kids if there are any very in portent thing to think about would you like some or not. You are only trapped if you what to be. Try making one little change at a time or if you can afford it make a big change. I am not telling you what to do if you chose to take this in mind it is your own decision. But I hope you think about what you will do before you do it and or talk with a counselor or Dr. P.S. every one is loved whether they think so or not. LOVE KENROD
2006-12-10 04:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by KenRod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to answer Yes. But right now it's because i don't have the money to move, I'm making the best of my situation by planning for my future and keeping hope alive that 2007 will be the year I'll be able to accomplish everything i need to in order to live my life the way i want.
2006-12-10 05:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by ~Twisted Sister~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There is usually plenty for all people to deal with. If you had no unusually annoying circumstances to deal with, what would you do? You would be bored. Thus you have situations (problems) to solve to make your life more fun. And nature created you to have the capability to solve those problems. Trust yourself and your capabilities.
2006-12-10 03:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by ilovela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, its however just a passinng idea. We seem to get deep thoughts when we suspect a change in our fortunes. The best thing to do is to put the ideas on paper and hang that paper on a door, that way, you can work on it.
2006-12-10 09:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, this is not uncommon. The trick is to be happy with your life whether you are in command of your own destiny or not. You know what they say.... "Life is what happens while you're making other plans".
2006-12-10 03:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by eggman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we are never really trapped. there are always ways to get out. money can be made with perseverance. but our path is to be learned by living each day to the fullest.
2006-12-10 11:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...but we are put in these circumstances to learn particular lessons.....sometimes we know what they are as they happen and sometimes they remain a mystery till years later....but there's always a purpose and always a lesson......as long as we learn from what we go thru then we are where we are supposed to be in life, rather or not it feels like our life or not....
good luck and neva give up the faith, rather it be in your God or your Self :0)
marjenl72
2006-12-10 04:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by marjenl72 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Right now, i'm very happy with my life, so i'd go with a no
2006-12-10 03:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋