I really like this girl. we have talked about our relationship but its goin to go nowhere b/c she likes this guy that she works w/ more than me. she did date this guy earlier this year but something happened and it ended. she was pissed about it for a long time and now she wants to get back w/ him. she doesnt wanna go out w/ me cause she thinks that she doesnt deserve me and that she also doesnt wanna hurt me. we ARE still friends and we hang out some times (go to the movies usually). i wanna take this relationship further but she doesnt. should i continue to persue this or not? Im still in high school if that matters. a senior w/ 1/2 a year left.
2006-12-09 19:39:59 · 16 answers · asked by jmon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give up...
2006-12-09 19:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone tells you that they want to be with someone else,believe them.I know it hurts,because I've been there,but at least she is trying to make this less painful for you by telling you the truth.You probably won't be able to be her pal right away.Don't try to be ,or you'll just end up feeling worse.One day you will wake up,and an entirely different girl will seem three times hotter and cooler than her-I know it may be hard to believe,but it's true.Let this one go.It's hard,but you'll feel better in a few weeks if you cut her off completely.No one has self esteem made of steel.Save yourself the pain of being "there for her."Good luck.
2006-12-10 03:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was JUST in this situation... but i was the girl and i said these things to the guy i wasnt interested in... i dated this guy we broke up for some dumb reason and then i went out with someone else but then i realized i wanted the other guy so then we broke up and i said all those things to him and then i started seeing my ex again. You definately should just move on... im really sorry that this happened to you but my advice is just try and move on. Good Luck!
2006-12-10 03:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude she told u how she feels, she has been straight up with her feelings, be a friend to her and be there for her instead she would appreciate it more.
later on u might get into a relationship but for now she needs a friend more.
2006-12-10 03:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by shrimpy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't interested in you, do not pursue her. The more you try, the less she will respect you. She's interested in someone who doesn't treat her good, that doesn't say much about her intelligence....as for you, don't put all your eggs in one basket. Find someone who values you, not someone who you have to coerce to be with you.
2006-12-10 03:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue as long as u like her as much as usound , but if shes fixed her self with this other guy then better to leave her and move forward.
wait enough to see hows its developing between her and the other guy.
2006-12-10 03:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not keep trying with her. She will only use you for rebound and then go back to him. Find your someone and give her up.
2006-12-10 03:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by abby normal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously still has feelings for this other guy. You should find someone that has the same feelings for you, as you do for them.
2006-12-10 03:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on. take it from a guy who gets rejected from girls all the time. move on and find someone else. good luck
2006-12-10 03:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go.u are in the friend zone. u are not getting out anytime soon. move on. u are too young to be stuck dealing with her.
2006-12-10 03:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by blueygirly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your dog for a walk give up
2006-12-10 03:43:23 · answer #11 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋