well im asked out by ugly dudes but hotties are always breaking their necks to look my way but are to afraid to ask me out thinking ill turn them down im thinking they think i have a boy freind pleeeeeas help me get advise on getting a boy freind and to get the hotter guys to ask me out TIPS!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-09 19:26:19 · 14 answers · asked by micky p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to them and smile like your interested. They are trying to figure out what you like and you need to let them know one way or another.
2006-12-09 19:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ack!!! You're one of _those_ people...
Have you ever dated someone who wasn't a 10? I started off a geek. All through school I had a hard time finding anybody to really hang out with. Sad, huh?
I learned me some social skills. Now I avoid, like the plague, any woman who puts looks before brains. In my opinion (and apparently several women I've dated before) I'm not all that bad looking.
What's lacked in looks, they say, is made up for in substance.
When you say ugly, you imply geeks and other typical social outcasts. These are the people who end up holding their girlfriend in high regard and treating them extremely well. (Does the name Bill Gates ring a bell? How about Tiger Woods? With his supermodel wife?)
This question that you've posted causes me to think of you as extremely conceded, snobbish, and (quite frankly) is rude.
Now... since you consider yourself as such a hottie, you should find it natural that you'll get more attention that some of the 'fairer' women out there simply don't. This is the consequence of your looks. If you want less attention, try being less of a hottie. You simply can't pick and chose who's going to give you attention. It's all or none. Yes or no. 1 or 0.
2006-12-09 19:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jack Schitt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your prob is that the hotties think that u are to good 4 them... so talk to them and make yourself seem as equal as them... guys dont like working to hard and ur obviously such a hottie that it looks like it would take 2 much work
2006-12-09 19:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you poor thing, your confidence level looks like it is at an all time low!! HAHA NOT!! Maybe your arrogance turns them OFF. Girl, maybe you THINK you are the ****..but you probably aren't all that HOT...I know your attitude definitely isn't attractive. And if your facial expression gives off your snobby/arrogant attitude..that probably turns guys away too!
2006-12-09 19:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly, i think of you responded the question your self. once you're a very good looking guy, you will attraction to all kinds of ladies folk, not basically good looking ones. many women folk on the instant are obese, that's actual, yet they are nonetheless women folk. wait and spot, you will discover somebody with whom there is mutual allure. And as far because of the fact the obese ones...you do not could date them...yet be variety :-)
2016-10-18 01:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...lets think for a minute? maybe its because of your friends or ex-boyfriends?
have you ever talked to the hotties? or even let them know your looking and not gona turn them down?
2006-12-09 19:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably are pretty but you don't know if everybody else thinks so. a lot of what you call ugly guys might be better for you because they will appreciate you more . sometimes the cute guys might think you should be wanting them more then they should be wanting you. also so called ugly guys are so used to being turned down by girls that they just take the risk to see if maybe they might have a chance with you . i notice that a lot of cute guys are to stuck on themselves and love to play women and don't respect them that much . it is good to have confidence but not to much confidence because a lot of people might see you as being a little stuck on yourself. you should want a guy not just because of their looks but because of who they are and would like someone to want you for that. and the hot guys might think that you only want them because of their looks. most girls get guys to turn their heads i get it all of the time except it doesn't make me think that he didn't just do it to another girl a few minutes ago.some guys might look at girls thinking they can just hit it and run if you know what i mean. my suggestion to you is to look for someone that is attractive in many ways not just by their looks because the ones that look good are not always good. and i don't know about you but i don't want no guy that looks in the mirror more times than me because then i would have some questions on his sexuality . some of the hotter guys come with a lot of baggage because you always have to worry about them getting hit on by other women or getting with any women they want behind your back (you also have worry about that with mostly all guys but the hotter ones you have to worry about even more) . everyone wants to be with someone that their attracted to but i hope we would all want to be with someone that is attractive in all ways and are with us because of who we are and not on what we look like.... maybe you should give what you called so called ugly guys a chance and then maybe a hot guy would try to get with you knowing you might want to be with him not for just his looks ( like most girls do) or you might find out that that so called ugly guy is better for you
2006-12-09 19:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress more like a sluut so that hot guys will think you are easy. Good luck
2006-12-09 19:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be the attitude. Maybe you should stop worshiping your self and give them a chance
2006-12-09 19:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by abby normal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch my lips ,,,Trip them and be on the ground before them
2006-12-09 19:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋