What can i do,there are lots of people i have come across i either Love them or the other way round.Some guys just say what they want to and never mean it 4rm ther Heart and that bad.
2006-12-09 19:18:58 · 13 answers · asked by Pretty showry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just try to be friends with them at first and that will help build trust then go from there.
2006-12-09 19:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem very sweet. I think that what you should do is work on making yourself happy. If you can't do that then how can you expect someone else to make you feel that way. It is okay to give your heart, there are no guarantees that we won't be hurt. That's just life. Sometimes when I have been hurt in the past what I did was stop dating for a little while to gather myself together.
2006-12-09 19:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't make dating a priority right now. You've got to take care of yourself, and get over whatever resentment and fear you have first. Everyone gets hurt, and we all find a way to get over it. Once you believe in your own strength, and know that you will survive if you get your heart brOKe again, then you are ready to date. You have to be strong first. If you are telling yourself that you can't take it again, then you are obviously not ready. No one can predict what will happen in a relationship. The next person you meet may be "the One" but you have to be whole first, you can't be afraid, you can't sit around and wonder if you'll be hurt again, and you can't make him suffer for what someone else did. Gain courage and you will be ok.
2006-12-09 19:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure many of us went through same worries at times. I know I did. But I can asssure you, when you least expected the right guy will come along. Just be happy, allways look after yourself, be confident ( guys allways like that) and be ready cause you never know when Mr. Right will notice you. And don't look desperate, allways relaxed, even if inside you feel like you just want to grab the first good looking guy that crosses your path.
2006-12-09 19:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Izabela V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have many choices! MAybe for now you might find it difficult but hey! maybe you will change you mind..
but you don't know if you believe that there will be love in the future then go to it! you never know when you will that guy you had been wishing for! Love is a feeling but it can also be a new beginning!
2006-12-09 19:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by silverbutterflies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal not to trust when someone betrayed and hurt you so badly. Don't feel bad. In due time you will find someone who will win and earn your trust once again. Until then keep your guard up and protect your heart.
2006-12-09 19:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kay_Ladee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok some times u dont meet good ppl
well i can promice u that i m not that kind of guy n i can offer true frndship
this goes for every 1 if any 1 ever needs a frnd i m here
2006-12-09 19:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not easy giving your heart to someone and never getting the favor returned. its just one of those risks u always have to take. just one day everything will come together with that right guy u just gotta beleive good things will happen :)
2006-12-09 19:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a king has a son, the son becomes a prince. Good luck
2006-12-09 19:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only people that are going to tell you the truth are going to be people that you wont want to go out with.
2006-12-09 19:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋