My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-09 19:03:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I remember you, and your last question regarding this same man. I already explained to you 'why' he does it, I wont go over it again...
Listen. He is an emotionally, verbally and physically abusive man. All these types of abuse combined together are enough to confuse your mind, and put your own worth in question in your opinion. He is POISON. He may say he misses you and that he loves you from time to time, and he will KEEP saying it, then KEEP abusing you in every way possible because he is mentally ill. He has an abuse problem that he needs to seek help for. But NOT on your watch.
If you value your life, you need to search your soul for the missing link that is causing you to believe it's okay for you to keep him around.
Start by changing your number. Explain this situation to the phone company, and they'll take care of it. If he is able to find you, get a restraining order. Seriously. And YES, like I said before, he WILL message you again.
Let go of this, love. You'll be much better off.
2006-12-09 19:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you are describing here is true. You need to leave him alone, stop responding to his messages. And if he continues to leave you these types of messages. You should go directly to the police and file a report, showing them this nonsense he is sending to you. And obtain a restraining order. He is a very dangerous individual and his behaviors are only going to escalate until he finally hurts you. Be careful and do not speak with him. You really should make your parents aware of these messages. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-10 03:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else that actually cares about you because if you allowed him to do it the first time it'll continue.
2006-12-10 03:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the guy is crazy from abusing and theatening you.and why the hell he says it through text messages??
2006-12-10 03:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by lara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ERG, GET OVER HIM IF HE'S DOING THAT TO YOU. such a waste of timeeeeee..
2006-12-10 03:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by indecisive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg change ur number
2006-12-10 03:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by tami_6996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋