i am an 18 year old male, 5'6, 130 pounds. anyways i was over at my friends house today and his sister, who is a year younger than me, 17, is about 5'9. anyways she plays softball so she is muscular and probably outweighs me, and she was wearing these 4 inch heels to make her look like about 6'1, and she stood next to me and started telling me how little i was.
next thing i knew, she reached down, put both her hands underneath my armpits and lifted me off the ground. she pulled me towards her body, and i felt my erection throbbing against her stomach. she looked down at it, and looked at me and smiled. she carried me out of the room and everyone was laughing at me. she called me her little baby. i was so embarrassed i was shaking. i was telling her to stop but she thought i was just joking
everytime i tried to push away from her, she just squeezed me harder. i don't know what to do next time i see her??
2006-12-09 18:51:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a crazy situation. So, it may require a crazy solution. You obviously had an erection for a reason. Despite being embarrased by her, you are attracted to her. You may not want to admit it, but there was some definite attraction or your body would not have responded as it did. Anyway, the crazy solution might be to run with it. By that, I mean face up to it and make her face up to it too. Tell her that you are attracted to her and that even though it was an embarrasing situation, it made you realize how you felt. Be brave about it, be emotionally strong about it and no matter what happens, she'll have to respect you. Even if she laughs or tries to intimidate you, she won't be able to ignore it if you are sincere and courageous in sharing your true feelings with her. It's so crazy that it just might work. You may actually end up getting together with her. As far as your size goes, don't worry about it. I'm only 5' 8" and I know that if you have confidence, sincerity and courage you may as well be 10 feet tall because that is how people will respect you.
2006-12-09 22:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine: One time I was walking around the house. Some visitors of my family were there. Suddenly, ti got so hot my feet were so sweaty. I took my slippers of then suddenly... I stepped on my puppy's poo! It was all over my foot. "CODY (my pup)!" I had shouted. The visitors laughed because when I walked, I slipped on my dog's pee. OMG. So embarrassing. Parents: My mom was going out with her friends. She didn't want one of my them to come. Let's call her Jane. So she texted (hides her real name) Lea, saying "let's not bring Jane". But then her cell phone rang and a forwarded message! She had accidentally sent the message to Lea! She was so embarrassed she didn't dare see her again.
2016-03-29 01:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just gender equality thingy! and yes.. it hurt and humiliating to be compared to someone without reason! you can tell her how you feel.. and maybe she will understand since she IS a girl.. so why not??
so yea.. the next time you see her just tell her that "just becuase she is taller or larger doesn;t mean she can just pick on you" and the kinder way would just say how you feel when she does that! I know for a guy it is hard to express your own emotions but that is how usually people solve misunderstandings and probably this!
2006-12-09 19:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by silverbutterflies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you can speak openly and honestly to this girl in private. Tell her how you feel, that it embarrassed you. If she has a heart she will not do this again. If she continues, you will have to enforce a lesson we all must learn in life. Some people are not good for us to be around. Then keep your distance.
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-12-09 19:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, that is soo embarassing for a guy, how in the world did you get an erection from that?? haha....
just keep your distance, do wutever i ttakes to prevent it from happening again
2006-12-09 18:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel bad for you that reminds me of when my cousin got a hug from her friend and he had morning wood so we made fun of him for awhile we thought it was funny i regret doing it to him but were cool i use to like him....you seem pretty cool i hope she likes you cause she might you know
=)
2006-12-09 18:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if what she did/is doing/is trying to do to you s supporting her idea of herself. Acknowledge she is stronger than you...but that's all she is proving.
2006-12-09 18:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wooowwwww....
avoid her at all costs.
Or laugh with everyone and pretend you found it hilarious as well.
2006-12-09 18:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is that a joke? hahahhahahahhhahha
2006-12-09 18:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"leave me alone. i dont like u."
2006-12-09 18:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋