We love out family.............we love out pet........we love ourselves.........we love ..as in... we care for
So whats love got to do with two people wanting to spend the rest of their life with each other?
so we got love fo each other....so the both of us has never been in - love with anyone else till we met each other online.......we both told each other of how this feeling of happiness had just HIT us right in our hearts.......we hardly know each other.....I keep telling him that.....he states that we'll get to know each other .....its been three months so far.....and its so hard to withstand these days apart when we cannot contact each other........he contacts me in very late hours.....chatting for hours.......I dont know what to think because of this...
I bet alot are thinking that I must be a game to him.....i feel that way .... but i only wonder if it'll ever change....i've been through alot...where I'd had to upsettingly wait for changes that did happen
2006-12-09 18:50:27 · 9 answers · asked by Kriss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a word, everything.
I don't think you are just a game to him - my and my girlfriend will talk for hours online late at night, too, as she lives in a different city (school), and she's never, ever been a game to me. To be honest, when you fall in love, there's no mistaking it, it feels like being hit by a truck, and you should take that feeling and run with it.
That being said, you might want to meet in person, because sometimes people aren't who they seem to be online. It's probably a very slight chance in your case, but at least then you'd get to see each other.
Also, he may have a point - you can get to know each other. Give it time, and above all, keep talking to him, every spare moment you can find. Not only will you get to know him better, and vice versa, but it's the only way to keep close if you can't actually see each other.
2006-12-09 18:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has everything to do with spending your life with someone, without it there is nothing to fall back and you tend to feel a sense of resentment with the other person after some time.
Internet dating is different and can be fun when you feel a connection with someone, internet dating can also be misleading because anyone can easily type something without feeling for what they wrote.
Its always a lovely feeling when someone chats with you for ages, expresses feelings for you and says they want to be with you but remember the saying - easier said then done.
When someone calls you at really late/weird hours it means theyre calling you when its good for them, they dont want to disrupt their personal lives so they will make a call just when their day is over.
You really need to meet this person to know what man he really is but i urge you to be SAFE about it, meet him in a public place like a coffee shop and never be with him alone on the first date. There are a lot of perverts online and will tell you anything you want to hear even if they do call you.
Im warning you only because i know EXACTLY how you feel, ive been through it before and its so hard to keep in contact with someone who lives so far and all you have is the internet and phone calls.
You can only determine if that man is good for you in person. Be wise about it and use your common sense.
I fell deeply inlove with someone from another state and he felt strong feelings for me but he played with my feelings and didnt care that being so far apart hurt, he could of easily came to see me as he could afford it (i couldnt) but he didnt. So we broke off our internet/phone relationship.
I met another person online 2 years ago... we were friends at first but earlier this year he admitted his feelings to me, he now moved 2 states to be with me and we're so inlove and happy. So what im saying is love can happen online you just got to be very careful.
Set a date to meet up, if he doesnt want to then forget that relationship because if he truely had any feelings for you he would be happy to meet you.
2006-12-10 03:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by cheekee_bum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you. Guys that you meet in chat rooms are generally married looking for a "thing" or single looking for no commitment. They are real good at telling women what they want to hear. If you look in profiles most are blank where it asks for "marital status". If he is only contacting you during late hours, he is waiting until his wife/girlfriend has gone to bed.
2006-12-10 04:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has a lot to do with it, but love doesn't come around with in tree months, especially over the internet. If you feel like you are a game to him, you are probably right. Go out and meet real people face to face.
2006-12-10 02:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is new and exciting to you. Everything in the beginning of a relationship is very exciting and thrilling; it's when you REALLY get to know each other; know each others faults, habits, etc., that the REAL test of love comes into play.
2006-12-10 02:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Tina...where did you go, Tina? I ain't seen you since Mad Max...Tina?
2006-12-10 02:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE spell check....you should try it sometimes!
2006-12-10 02:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by LenaRose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never do online dating...
2006-12-10 02:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what....the.....hell.....are.....u....talking.....about......and.......y.....r.....u......doing .......that? r....u.....captin.....kirk?
2006-12-10 02:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by Fatman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋