so say a guy tells you he finds you attractive and asks you if you think hes attractive. you look at his pictures and you dont find him attractive AT ALL. what exactly do you tell him to let him down easy, without crushing him and without lieing so that he will think you are interested. im really not interested in him at all, and i really dont find him attractive, i just dont know how to tell him that without totally crushing him. any advice?
2006-12-09 18:49:40 · 4 answers · asked by amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him hes Cute.
A little White Lie doesnt Hurt anybody.
2006-12-09 18:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with , Amanda, you're giving yourself an awful lot of power. Do you really have the power to "crush" him? Is he so weak, personality wise, that if you simply said you didn't find him attractive that he would commit suicide...or something worse? I agree, when people ask those questions they are looking for a positive response, not an "honest" one. So ask him if he wants honesty or something that sounds nice. Tell him you're tastes run along different lines, that some of your girlfriends find him attractive, you just don't happen to.
2006-12-10 02:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's an online service and you'll never meet him anyway, I'd let it sit for a couple days and then just tell him a white lie - <
2006-12-10 02:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by zilmag 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he's cute in his own way, but not really your type..
2006-12-10 02:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by kels.2330 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋