This girl i really like has suddenly distance herself from me like nothing else....we use to go out heaps, have lunches go to movies, dinner once and also coffee....i never asked her out cause she broke up with her b/f...we use to go out even when they were together...always her choice to take me...not mine.,....recently though shes really distancing herself from me ???why i dont know....its like she heard something bad,or has got annoyed at me....we work together but shes leaving soon...and i want to sort things out before she moves on in her life....she still talks but i know its not the same, and we never do things together now....we still laugh etc...but like i said not the same....what has happened people. I spoke to her mate, who thinks its nothing, and it prolly isnt anything to do with me....this is coming from her friend...she told me to not ignore her...and to talk talk whats up and that it not right what shes doing...her mate also said this girl says good things bout me????
2006-12-09 18:45:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive always though she maybe using me...but things dont add up....she always wanted to know what my goals were in life...she till wants to talk to me...and she responds to everything i isay....we also still share laughs and so forth....just not as much now....she seems scared or confuseD??
2006-12-09 18:47:05 · update #1
well! d'uh! maybe she hasn't gotten over her boyfriend or they got back together! and since she does says good things about you! that's good! it's possible she likes you but trying to forget you because she's moving on. So why not be brave and go ask her POLITELY why is she ignoring you or you can ask her out and if she accepts it ask her why she has been ignoring you!
there are certain things that are hard to understand so basically jkust by asking and searching for the answer.. you won't feel helpless! Good luck!
2006-12-09 18:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by silverbutterflies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where communication comes in. Alot of people regret things because they never learned to express their feelings. You need to come right out and ask her what's bothering her and tell her how you feel. I can see it's bothering you, since you think things are not the same. So let her know how you feel and that you are concerned!
2006-12-09 18:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she may just have a lot on her plate with the whole moving on and everything. try to keep your relationship alive; but if she needs space, respect that and allow her to have it.
2006-12-09 18:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by kels.2330 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her and think of me!
2006-12-09 18:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by LenaRose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋