Well I got a mg from him on myspace asking ME for relationship advice. Here it is(I'll be replacing a name & adding a lil info)
Date: Nov 27 2006 9:54 PM Flag spam/abuse [ ? ]
Subject: advice
Body: sorry for bothering you but hope you Get this i need some advice. for some reason _[ Jane ]_ ( his gf/the girl he left me for) is mad at me. and i dont know what to do. can u give me any advice?
What would drive a guy to ask the girl he dumped for advice about his relationship? Especially when he knows I can't stand his gf (shes evil)...Really,why? Help pls
2006-12-09 18:35:45 · 11 answers · asked by pkbabe87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well 1st of all, I already wrote back to him saying something like "Ok...this is kinda weird but whatever! You should of asked your older sis for advice & since I don't know exactly what happened I guess all I can say is to try to talk to [ Jane ] but don't bug her."
Ok about blocking him, I did & it didn't work cuz a few days later I got another mg from him about some video games(nothin important)
& yes! [ Jane ] is evil! Best way I can describe her is that shes 1 of those "wolf in sheep's clothing" types & whatever she was mad about was probably pretty stupid (aka SUPER DRAMA QUEEN/HIGH MAINTANANCE)
I guess I did alot of the thinking/problem solving while I was with him. Its probably cuz I'm 19(hes 17 but 18 next month; I'm 1 yr older). I REALLY don't like to tell him what to do cuz I've always wanted him to grow up & think for himself but hes easily influenced/maniplulated(which is why I hate Jane/evil dictator)
I just don't understand why ME out of all people to ask...
2006-12-10 07:19:08 · update #1
maybe he still sees you as a friend he can go to for things like that. he knows you're a girl, and maybe he thinks you can understand these things better than he can. or maybe he's just being a real ****head and is trying to make you think about him & his girlfriend..
2006-12-09 18:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) He's tactless. I think we might know why Jane is upset with him, lol.
2) He expects you to have good advice.
Personally, I would tell him to piss off.
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The blocking didn't work? That's odd... So, I guess the best thing to do, next time he sends you a message, is to basically say what you just told us: "Why me? We're not exactly friends, and I shouldn't be the first on your list when it comes to advice. In fact, when it comes to advice with your girlfriend, I shouldn't be on your list at all!"
Yeah, I'm still of the opinion that you should tell him to piss off, lol.
2006-12-10 02:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting situation. Perhaps he considers you compassionate and sensitive and intelligent and genuinely treasures your advice. Also, you might consider he is doing the same thing to her he did to you. Which is probably what's happening. We tend to fall into patterns. don't be upset with her, she didn't "take" him from you, he left of his own free will. This is not a reflection on you...since he obviously considers you some ting special. So help him in his time of need...and feel sorry for him. He is the one with a problem.
2006-12-10 02:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably when you were in a relationship you used to do all the thinking for him and now he is completely lost without you. So he is asking you for advise?
2006-12-10 02:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by Switz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he has no-one else to ask and respects your opinion.
Don;t be rude or say anything mean just tell him you apprecaite he asked for advice but you cant give him any on this.
2006-12-10 02:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...this guy is either a COMPLETE MORON or an insensitive asshole. Either way...loser. Don't respond, move on, meet new guys. Best of luck!
2006-12-10 02:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kristina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks you two are capable of being friends and maybe he wants a female pov.
2006-12-10 02:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by A. Tarayana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him some bad advice, he wont ask again...Or send him here, well take care of him for ya....
2006-12-10 03:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is shallow. Ignore him. The nerve.
2006-12-10 02:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds sadistic.You should block him so he cant email you.
2006-12-10 02:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋