guys..i want to know what u think of these situation.I really like this guy and I know he likes me as much(he tells me all the time)anyway,we i m each other everyday.For the past couple of days he's been busy and hasn't chatted with me but leaves me offline msgs.I leave him offline msgs everyday sometimes 4-6(some are longer then others).I was wondering ...is that to much.I dont want to scare him off and for him to think im desperate....but what do u guys think?Should i keep sending him msgs and letting him know how much he means to me or is it better to back off a little....Thank u
2006-12-09 18:18:43 · 17 answers · asked by aliyah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he leaves me 2 msgs tops and there always short and sweet...mine on the other had are long..What i also want to know is what do u guys like better...the girl who play hard to get or the one who lets u know how she feels?
2006-12-09 18:20:51 · update #1
Every relationship works differently. The best thing I can advise you is send him a message and wait for his reply. If he comes in from his daily business and finds 4-6 messages from you, it will come across as a bit 'strong' You're not giving him a chance to respond to you and you're making it seem, unintentionally, like you expect him to drop everything in his life to answer you. It is nice to let someone know you care, but too often and too much and it will not have any meaning and make you look a bit to over enthusiastic!
2006-12-09 18:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its hard to judge that, id say if he doesnt respond to your im then you need to wait till he im's back you can call him once a day and leave one message if he dont call back wait till he calls you and dont allways get back right away your self, yes you do need to play it cool its easy to go over baord on that you can scare some by calling im texting to much thouhg if you have alittle storry or something happend then you can make a little excuse to talk it is anoying when some is texting or im you and really has nothi8ng to say its nice at first but when your busy dont make a thing about it though wiht him just cool it a bit when you know him better then you'll know how much he likes im and all that and he's prolly just busy and doent want to leave you hanging all the time
2006-12-09 18:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by <B> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instant messaging because of fact then you truly get an instant respond on something rather of in all probability waiting weeks for a respond. instant messaging is likewise extra suitable in case you opt for an answer on something significant.
2016-10-14 09:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by croes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instant message him about maybe 3x's not 4-6
4-6 long instant messages kind of clingy
Also, never hurts to ask him if its too much since he may like you messaging him alot
2006-12-09 18:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by $Hustla_on_tha_Money$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have time to talk on the phone? Anyway I dont think its too much cause it sounds like he is messaging you just as much as you him. Be weary of relationships via text messages or IMs, the guy does not have to do much and its easier for them to dump you. Goodluck with your relationship.
2006-12-09 18:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by anonbealove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more messages you leave him the more comfortable he would be asking you out. But if your messages are too "lovey" and to numerous he may feel that you will be clingly.
But I would continue with the messages, but not have them too much like you mean so much to me and stuff like that.
2006-12-09 18:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by cornhuskers_2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send more than a couple between his replies unless there's something specific you need to tell him about, like changed plans or something.
2006-12-09 18:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont think too much. the more you worry the more you will right and the more you right and explain the more he thinks you think he is incompitent. just leave him a few messages but dont explain things or correct things.. worrying is the KEY! to messing up ^ ^
2006-12-09 18:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think one offline message a day is plenty. You may come across as being clingy otherwise.
2006-12-09 18:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop acting desperate, you might actually scare him off. wait for him to come to you, i never ever called a guy until i was absolutely head over heals for my bf of two years.. my suggestion is.. play a lil hard to get.. he'll go nuts over you..
2006-12-09 18:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋