I think im in love with my best friend thats a girl. I cant stop thinking about her and its driving me crazy. But the problem is is that I asked her out once a few months ago and she told me she cant cuz she has a boyfriend. I've never seen him and she doesnt talk about him. He called her once when i was with her and when she was done she called him an asshole. I'm not sure if shes feeling the same way but she always wants to hang out with me. She's always sharing everything she has with me and shes always looking at me and smiling.
We both have almost everything in common. But i don't want to make a move because i don't want her to mess up her relationship and end up hurting her but it seems like she wants me to make a move she's slept in my bed with me a few weeks ago. So what should I do?
2006-12-09 17:26:26 · 7 answers · asked by takeiteasybrah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn...
Well thats really cool that you don't want to mess up her relationship, but sometimes its necessary. It really says something when a guy will go the extra mile as to fight for a girl's affection. The only problem is, it's kind of risky.
My advice you should go for it. Fight for her. Don't treat her like an object and claim "you're mine." I meant it as make her see that you love her. Saying it doesn't quite cut it in this situation. You have to prove it to her. Make her think or wonder why should she be with you. What do you have that her boyfriend doesn't, and most important, why you love her.
At any case you have to let her know about how you feel. Regardless of how she might feel about you. If she rejects you, fight for the reasons as to why she acts a certain way around you. Harboring these types of feelings can literally drive you insane. Let alone the thought of "what could have happened if I told her." In my honest opinion, she's obviously trying to say something. But be really careful on what you say or ask. If you really love her like you say take deep consideration of her feelings and follow (an over used cliche) your heart.
2006-12-09 17:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by That Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are falling for her. If she says she doesnt feel the same and still just wants to be friends only, then continue to be just her friend. Otherwise, she could get further w/ her current relationship or get a new relationship all because you never made a move. you have to take a chance. doing nothing gets you no where.
2006-12-10 01:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this question at least a dozen times.
Are you reading the answers????
It goes like this:
1. There is no boyfriend
2. Yes, she likes you!
3. You are both a little immature.
4. Get a move on...times a waste'n.
5. You'll never know if you don't try.
2006-12-10 01:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you two are alone, and if she mentions her boyfriend with whom she seems to be on the outs, ask her if there's anything bothering her she wants to talk about. After all, you are best friends, surely she can talk about that with you.
I am in a similar situation with a good female friend of mine whom I would like to be my girlfriend, well, minus the boyfriend part you described. I wouldn't want to mess up our friendship either, so I would suggest just take it slow. If you two are real close, just ask her what is going on and go from there.
2006-12-10 01:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you would like to find a romantic partner, and ask her if she will help you. Maybe suggest a friend of hers. If she likes you as a boy friend she will not be able to share you with others. At witch point she will feel as if she is about to lose you. She will come around real fast or you will know to move on.
2006-12-10 01:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by Webmaster Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should defenitely go all out to make her happy. Try not to be to musshy-gushy, but make her fell good and happy when she is with you.
Try to mention her boyfriend a few times during a conversation. Soon you will probably learn alot about her. Then if she ever leaves her boyfriend and is single, dont jump and get first in line. Let her get over it. She wont take any guys until she is over her boyfriend. Try to comfort her and just all around make her feel good. But when she does get over her boyfriend. Dont get ahead of yourself. Wait a few days. Then make a move.
Take my advice its worked before.
I hope it works for you!!!
XoXo
2006-12-10 01:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by noelle elizabeth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should watch your back fool!!!
2006-12-10 01:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋