I really like this guy, Austin, and I've been told by a friend that his brother, Logan, said he was just using me but Austin and Logan dont get along and supposedly Logan wants me (in a sexual way) anyways. So how do I tell if I could be being used? We're together but we JUST started our relationship and so I cant tell by his actions and fact being he's a guy I cant trust his words. So wut do I do?
2006-12-09 17:19:39 · 13 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depending on how he's using you. But you just to be on the safe side... you could watch the things he's doing to you, or the way he treats you. And if it changes throughout the relationship. Edge him on, and kind of hint to him that you despise users and definitely don't appreciate being used by people. And if he has a weird reaction (or is speechless) about it. Then there's possibly something up with him. But if he agrees with you and is comfortable with the choice of conversation. Then it kind of shows he has no intentions of using you. And for his brother, he could be just saying that to make you have a change of heart. So he can have you instead of Austin. More less, it's the jealousy speaking. And isn't satisfied with you & Austin being together.
2006-12-09 17:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you perhaps should get a new set of friends. Take some distance from those two. Think about the logic of it and then decide if you need this in a new relationship! You can't trust his words, so why bother with someone like this ? They probably both want you in a sexual way and you're being manipulated. Beware of such guys!
2006-12-09 17:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all his a guy and you can't trust his words that is something?? Well this is some thing I do not know how you can tell but just leave him I mean if you are in fear that you might end up geting hurt forget about him and if he trully loves you he will come begging you to be his. easy right
2006-12-09 17:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this guy is very sly and smooth be careful also if on the other hand he is all about him self and wants you to dive everywhere with your car pay for everything and do what he wants to do and nevermind you thoughts well you are being used your heart and instincts as a stong women will tell you the truth hope this helps
P.S. there are great sexy *** guys out there cause I married one
2006-12-09 17:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by FOXY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Well I would ask the his brother why was he using you. Also Why did his brother tell you. And Why should you belive him. Defenetly tell Austin though and see what he says. If he says that he is not using you and tells you looking in your eyez i think you'll know if he is lying or not.
2006-12-09 17:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are not being used but just be careful do not get into the stuff that easily and be very careful and if you do not feel comfortable than breakup.
2006-12-09 17:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2006-12-09 17:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by kblair0317 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a little to do physical stuff..if he sticks around , hes probably not using you.
2006-12-09 17:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what are you giving him that he may be using you for???? Sex, Money, What.... and are you getting anything in return??? Gotta ask yourself that first...
2006-12-09 17:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait and watch guys r . . , .u know dnt sleep with him atleast for 7or8months he cant act for long
2006-12-09 20:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋