To try and make a long story short, I asked a girl out to a dance and found out she was already going with someone else. I later found out she had actually just started going out with this guy only five days previous. I play piano and compose music, and after a couple days of being depressed I resolved to win her love if and when she left her relationship with this other guy by not just writing her a song, but a whole album of music. I already have alot of progress done, but what I'm wondering is will she think this is creepy or romantic?
2006-12-09 17:14:22 · 12 answers · asked by James B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
real love will give fruit one day...
2006-12-09 17:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by killer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!! Don't waste her time or yours. YES, it's very creepy. get the hell out of there and advertise yourself as the boy-toy in the block. (o.k don't do that) But, ask her to play something for you too. Don't be so creepy, be a man. Stand up and be something. Bulls walk up to the cows not run, that way they can get it all. Be the tree not the dog. All women like what you did, but that's something you do later in the relationship when both of you know each other a lot better and deserve it, especially after a hard day. Now you got to follow it with something bigger or risk the "relationship" getting BORING! You think you were depressed then, wait. You should tell her it's OK for her to see other guys while shes with you. OR, Be a man and cut the Early romantic crap off. Every time she calls you, tell her you want to see her. not need. want! When she ask why, hang-up! She'll come. And when she gets there act like you have no idea what shes talking about. Her bad for questioning you. Thats when she will eather see a man or a creepy-romantic loser! You got to sell it right or continue being her depressed win her over kind of guy. You say the other guy only lasted 5 days. He was probabily romantic too. Wait til she fines real man who wont take so much crap from her, thats the day she finds her true love. Girls sometimes like the badboy type. who, says you cant be both? GROW SOME BIG ONCE. YOUR GOING TO NEED IT ! TOO LATE, SHE'S GONING TO DUMP YOU ANYWAY, YOU SHOULD GO OUT LIKE A MAN! DON'T TELL HER JACK!
2006-12-10 02:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by BERT G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should bother with this girl anymore. From what I've read, you seem to have an infatuation with her, which is very unhealthy, as well as selfish, period. This act of composing a whole album to obtain someone for yourself is plainly selfish. It sounds weird to think of it that way, but it will clear your mind. Don't be a prick and give this girl your music; it's really gonna stress her out, and draw out your depression. It is not romantic to compose music to someone you do not date, it is creepy, the only way I can see this as being romantic is if you two WERE dating, but that would also make me wanna puke.
You seem like you might like to read, so I'll give you a little coming of age short story by James Joyce that I think you can relate to. http://eserver.org/fiction/araby.html
Pay close attention to how internally he feels, and why the story ends the way it does. Don't waste your talent on something so vain as getting what you want. You've already made this into a big, epic ordeal, you be best to turn back now before you get too addicted to it.
2006-12-10 01:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by ScareBear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may have romantic intentions... but I would be rather creeped out if I were the girl. I mean, it sounds like she's still with her boyfriend... and you're making an entire album of music dedicated to her in case that relationship ends in order to woo her.
You're probably making some pretty good music, but... it sounds really obsessive. Let's just say that if her current relationship does eventually end and she's magically single and looking, give her one song at a time (pace yourself, man!)... An entire album before the first date sounds way too desperate (therefore creepy).
That's just my opinion, though.
2006-12-10 01:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One song would be sweet and romantic, but a whole album seems creepy and obsessive.
2006-12-10 02:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend and you've known her for a while then maybe it's okay to write one or two songs, but that's it. Keep the songs decent!!! If you don't really know her, forget about it.
2006-12-10 01:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by VWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An entire album of piano music? I've seen entire forests of maple trees less sappy than that. Who do you think you are, Petrarch?
2006-12-10 01:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that is very romantic. However make sure that she is kind of into you because that does feak some girls out. i think you are sweet. what a good idea.
2006-12-10 01:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by carriec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as the music and words sound good as a song then its all alright
2006-12-10 01:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by 63godtoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is pretty sweet but the album might be comming on a bit 2 strong. Any way if its what you want....just do it!
2006-12-10 01:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by Lostfairytale 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't waste my time. This girl isn't into you.
2006-12-10 01:22:45 · answer #11 · answered by Veronique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋