I used to get abused too but my abuse stopped at age 12. Her dad and mother still beat her up with a belt. And her bro who is 20 years old he abuses her too. Abuse has become a normal thing for her. What can i do? i dont like seeing her hurt? and she doesnt want her parents in jail? too scared?also my dad tried talking to her father to stop beating all his 3 kids up my uncle wouldnt listen?
2006-12-09 17:10:09 · 8 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
go to child welfare. tell them. they usually do not disclose who makes the report.
do some thin before she ends up dead or suverely hurt.
NO ONE hurts kids if i have any thing to say or do.about it.
that is a no no
2006-12-09 17:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by chevys4evr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her parents won't automatically go to jail becasue they use a belt on her. They will be questioned for sure tho. What might happen is that they have to take parenting classes and report to a case worker daily. it depends on how severe the abuse is. If they do go to jail, I can fully understand her feeling of guilt. Even tho it is not her fault, I am sure she will be riddled with feeling she has done something wrong. They will alo work with her to assure her she is doing the right thing.How old is she? The brother does seem to be a real worry if he is using a belt on her...
She, or you..or someone needs to call family services right away, Intervention has to happen for this cycle of absue to stop. It looks like her brother is already in deep and a contneder for abusing his own kids later on..how sad.
2006-12-09 17:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can call child protective services in your area, explain the situation and ask them for advice. They have lots of experience working with this type of situation and can give you real direction, also can give you referrals if necessary. Encourage your friend to call as well. I used to call child protective services in lots of different counties when I was in property management, they were always very helpful.
If your parents are aware of the situation maybe they can help by taking your cousin in and getting her away from the immediate abuse.
2006-12-09 17:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a social worker in New Mexico, I used to work for child protective services. I have a list of every number in each state (each state has a toll-free hotline) You don't say which state you're in I don't know if you can e-mail through here but if you can e-mail me and I will give you the number for your state
2006-12-09 22:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by fl_lopez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-18 01:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know that seems tough but, it's really not. You need tot tell the police. I know she doesn't want them in jail, but if they got sent there for maybe 2-3 years they'd learn to love her. As for her brother, report him too. Like I said maybe he'll learn to love her, also. As for you, I'm really sorry....
2006-12-09 17:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by WWEsAngel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call up social services and report them anonymously or call your cousins school , ask to speak to the school counselor and report it. Your cousins life is in danger.
2006-12-09 17:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well she shouldnt be scared to send them to jail for a couple of years i mean if they keep abusing her they might kill her somday
2006-12-09 17:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by Pink Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋