why feeling alone...?

Question

i used to be a mentally strong, supportive to others, and jolly girl. i was very self-dependent kind. a month ago i broke up and exactly my relation couldn't even work for 2months, since then i've been feelin alone, also i've developed feelings for one of my frnd..., who knws i like him and he likes me too. but i think i wanna stay out of it all... for long time, and i dont want my that friend to be the "one".
i am being quite lazy from few weeks... also seems am losing out something in life while..., all others r doing their best in every field.
i've always been very supportive to my frns.., but for my problems i dont find anyone to talk to..., i really need someone but at the same time i wanna stay out of it. what to do...? whats going on...?

Answer 1

Hey there cheer up.... theres lots more to life than feeling lonely and crapped over a broken relationship. you say you are a jolly girl then cheer up baby! give yourself some time, thimk positive think gud, develop your energies, develop your talents, dont worry abt your problems... theres no man on earth without a problem. Think about the positive side of life, think about the many people less fortunate than you and thank god you are the lucky one who is self-dependant, jolly, supportive of others, mentally strong - remember you are the best and dont compare yourself with others, who know they may be envying you - so cheer up and have a great day!

Answer 2

Give yourself time to heal before going into another relationship, you may want to consider going into therapy for a little while just to have someone to talk to.

Answer 3

Uh, you want to be alone, but want your private life validated. You want someone to care, but want to stay out of it. You want a friend-but maybe not.

Answer 4

We all feel alone sometimes.. Thats why someone created myspace...

Answer 5

i'll be your pal. [e-mail]. spit your problems.