2006-12-09 16:43:39 · 9 answers · asked by papaangel84@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it depends on what your definition of Trust is. If a one persons definition of trust is that the other person is not going to fail them, or make bad decisions in life then their definition of trust is wrong. Trust is relative and not an absolute when dealing with relationships. Regarding employer-employee trust, yes. If an employee steals from an employer then the the trust is broken and the employee usually will be terminated. But in relationships we cannot go by that system or we will be alone in a very short while. If you try and love someone you will forgive their breaking of that trust as long as they are loyal. Loyalty is the key. If they admit their mistakes, don't do it again and again, and come back to where things started to heal the relationship then Love is actually being practiced. Yes, we all want to have the perfect partner that never messes up and that we could trust with a million dollars cash in hand that we loaned them, traveling in another country. But that is not usually the case. Relationships are very high risk in today's society. As the saying goes, "I should of learned, It takes a fool to learn, that love don't love nobody." Trust is something that is built up over years. Love is an action that you make to give to another person, worthy of it or not. People do not earn love, they earn trust. Love is a decision that you have to make to give to another person daily. It is self-sacrifice and selfless. Think of Mother Theresa or Florence Nightingale. Loyalty is the most important. Their love toward you is not infallible. They will mess up rest assured. But if they are loyal, they will stick with you and defend you till the end of time.
2006-12-09 17:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by bruce041 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends are you the kind of person that trusts first, and the other person loses it as time goes, does that mean this person is always in love?
Or someone that trusts no one and you can only build from the begining. Does that person not love too, they are just a little slower.
It also depends on broken trust; each person has different idea's on what constitutes it.
Love is seperate; it's just a way to sum up all feelings toward a person usually positive ones. It's much more simplistic and graceful that naming a list of 20 traits on why you like that person.
2006-12-09 16:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by shadycaliber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the first statement to be true...without trust there is no love. However, with true love it is just known from deep within that there is trust. How you think those couples who celebrate, 30, 40, 50 year anniversaries even make it that far? Infatuation, crushes, or uncertain love, that is when that second statement is true
2006-12-09 16:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because if u don't have trust how can u love that person?in that case you won't know what they are capable of and you might get hurt
2006-12-09 16:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by fantasticgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good idea it all has to fit and work in equility--it is best to trust a person -and work on a full friendship to lead to a better love
2006-12-09 16:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeahh. Love makes the world go round!!
2006-12-09 17:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by zxcv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful... Check you logic here. There is an inequation implied in your question... 'Nothing critical here, 'just trying to see if what you ask is really what you are asking...
2006-12-09 16:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do go hand in hand, just as you typed....
2006-12-09 16:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by nurse33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I really do.
2006-12-09 16:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋