okay theres this guy i kinda like...he said he liked me back but he wouldnt date me cause the distance but i think he lied....i gave him my number he doesnt call he doesnt message me he kinda broke my heart but i dont know how to move on...... and i cant find a way to be mean to him so what should i do?
2006-12-09 16:38:27 · 12 answers · asked by live life to the fullest 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know him personaly but he dosent live close he lives by my friend thats how i met him cause of her
2006-12-09 18:28:27 · update #1
Don't be mean to him. If you like him, try again, get a real reason, and don't get brushed aside until you do, and if he doesn't want to go out, move on because you've done all you can do. Once you are sure you've tried every option, and done your best for this you will be able to move on. If you really care about this guy, don't be mean to him, or worry about finding someone else right away because there will be no meaning to it, just be friends, take your time, and another person will come along. They always do...
2006-12-09 16:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can your heart be broken in you have not dated him? If you have not dated him, you really do not know him. How can you possibly be in love with someone you do not know. Perhaps he has a girlfriend. I think your ego is a little bruised. Just move on and don't take it so personally. There are plenty of men in this world. God bless****
2006-12-10 00:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. Wallow in your disappointment for a couple of days and eat all the icecream, chocolate and cookie dough you can lay hands on. DO NOT do this for more than a week!!!
Go out with all your girlfriends, assassinate his character and get giggly drunk.
Go hunting for a new guy
2006-12-10 00:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by poptop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not good enough for you because he lacks the character your looking for in a guy. Its great you found this out early in the relationship because you are not heavily infested in him. A little heartache in the beginning is better than a lifetime of regret and pain for you and children someday. Look at it as a blessing.....his character was revealed and not worthy of you.
2006-12-10 00:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kathryn W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mean, it'd make things worse. Its just time for you to start looking for new guys, to get your mind off him. Try to think of all the flaws he has a person, that you may have not neccessarily liked, and that should help.
2006-12-10 00:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by The Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be mean to him--he's already ignoring you. I'm wondering if your father knows about your long-distance relationships..if not, it's time to level with him. You're putting yourself in harm's way. I wouldn't look for people to date on myspace---too dangerous.
2006-12-10 02:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by salsera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be mean...dont lower your self like that.
Some people just cant say NO up front because they dont want to hurt people.....BUT, in the long run, its hurts more (people think theyre doing right by saying "yeah, ok" and never do anything)
Just give it time to get over him but try dating someone else....give it a shot.
Good Luck
2006-12-10 00:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to be mean to him,just move on and find someone else that will talk to you.
2006-12-10 00:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just not that into you....move on...get over it...seriously......forget him....tons more where that came from...do not waste your time.
2006-12-10 00:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by bella36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell me.
2006-12-10 00:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋